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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by winner37(m): 1:41pm On May 04

Dogalmighty17:
I don't understand what the problem is? Did you send her to go through your phone? My rule is anytime you go through my phone, whatever you see take it like that. Ask me nothing cos I owe you nothing.

If she wants to go let her go. Don't beg her. Na cheat you cheat you no kill person.

This man !!!!

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Dennisochampa: 1:41pm On May 04

If tables were turned and u caught her what would u do??

To be honest, i would advise her not to forgive you so keep begging her..... Hopefully she forgives you...

Don't give what you can't take!!

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Princezibk: 1:41pm On May 04

Dogalmighty17:
I don't understand what the problem is? Did you send her to go through your phone? My rule is anytime you go through my phone, whatever you see take it like that. Ask me nothing cos I owe you nothing.

If she wants to go let her go. Don't beg her. Na cheat you cheat you no kill person.

I hope you’ll condone such atrocities from her too

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Kingrshd3: 1:41pm On May 04

Do another marriage for the new one you bleep na ..

Mtheeww small thing

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by advanceDNA: 1:42pm On May 04

schoolboymatt:

any woman that cheats on her husband should not be given a second chance... send her packing. 😂

So Why do u now think the husband should get second chance..... ??

Nobody should get second chance after cheating...

..second chance be like.."please naa, allow me continue to cheat on u"

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by advanceDNA: 1:43pm On May 04

Omoawoke:

Mods add those pictures when they are moving to front page

Shut the front door!!!

Really?? I guess I learnt something today....

Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by AlphaHakimi: 1:43pm On May 04

Dear Men,

For whatever action you want to take in life, always make up you mind for the consequences.

If you want to cheat, calculate the worst possible outcome if you are caught and if it's something you can shoulder, please go ahead.

This is why as a man I prefer "pay as you go". No strings attached, no chats no evidence. The girl comes to your hotel, renders her service and she goes. She doesn't even need to know your name and always pay in cash.

Shalom

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by nairalanda1(m): 1:44pm On May 04

Omoawoke:

Shut the fuvk up and grow up man. You are an African man and stop this stupid western cheating shittt…

You are a man and free to sample any kepkus you want. Don’t just get caught and do it with caution, use protection and don’t neglect your family.

SO, why didn't he tell his wife before they get married that he was going to be sampling kpekus after they got married?

Do you know how many men have sampled kpekus and brought problem for their long suffering wives?

Plus, if he is free to sample kpekus, so is the woman. If a woman is willing to sleep with a married man, chances are, she is sleeping with other men too...danger ahead.

And after you people will come and be claiming 'am a christian'. Why follow a religion that pracicies monogamy, when you can be free to be a polygamist?

Plus, even in the days our forefathers were practicing polygamy, all of them properly married their wives before they sampled the kpekus. Not this one where one man turns himself into many women's latrine, as you seem to be advocating.

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by nairalanda1(m): 1:44pm On May 04

AlphaHakimi:
Dear Men,

For whatever action you want to take in life, always make up you mind for the consequences.

If you want to cheat, calculate the worst possible outcome if you are caught and if it's something you can shoulder, please go ahead.

This is why as a man I prefer "pay as you go". No strings attached, no chats no evidence. The girl comes to your hotel, renders her service and she goes. She doesn't even need to know your name and always pay in cash.

Shalom

Or he can follow the bible, and not sleep with any other woman apart from his wife.

Shalom.

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Fryx: 1:45pm On May 04

Broken1985:
Nairalanders,

Please don't crucify me yet, just advise me please. Had to utilize a new moniker for this.

I got married last year June and by February 2024, I was transferred to another state for work. I was bored in the city and probably made a mistake. The girl stays in same hotel, and works for a bank, also on a course. So we started talking and one thing led to another. This girl had her phone on audio record the two times we got down and recorded all the audio of the shit we did.

My wife came visiting and of course I defined boundaries the moment wifey was around. A few days back I got high and dozed off, my wife got into my phone saw our chats. Her last chat to me, was regarding the audio. My wife followed through the convo and she sent two 24 minute audios.

Before I could wake, Wifey was already gone from the hotel. And when I checked my phone I saw a long epistle and screen shots of what happened. Now she has called my entire family, friends everybody I know. I am so ashamed of myself.

Is there anything I can do to have her back.
Can she ever forgive me.

I feel so bad having betrayed her.

Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Dreamhighnow(m): 1:45pm On May 04

PerfectStranger:
Crying like you're not the bread winner of the house. Instead of getting your shìt together. Are you not a man?

All these Genz kids jumping into marriage. Can't even cheat successfully

Same way they will cheat on your daughters and you will be cheering their husband on to do more. You guys talk without thinking

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by dontrulee: 1:46pm On May 04

Mtcheew.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Once a LovePeddler always a LovePeddler.

Your marriage can't be the same again, you've betrayed the trust of your wife. Enjoy the consequences

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Fryx: 1:47pm On May 04

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Broken1985:
Nairalanders,

Please don't crucify me yet, just advise me please. Had to utilize a new moniker for this.

I got married last year June and by February 2024, I was transferred to another state for work. I was bored in the city and probably made a mistake. The girl stays in same hotel, and works for a bank, also on a course. So we started talking and one thing led to another. This girl had her phone on audio record the two times we got down and recorded all the audio of the shit we did.

My wife came visiting and of course I defined boundaries the moment wifey was around. A few days back I got high and dozed off, my wife got into my phone saw our chats. Her last chat to me, was regarding the audio. My wife followed through the convo and she sent two 24 minute audios.

Before I could wake, Wifey was already gone from the hotel. And when I checked my phone I saw a long epistle and screen shots of what happened. Now she has called my entire family, friends everybody I know. I am so ashamed of myself.

Is there anything I can do to have her back.
Can she ever forgive me.

I feel so bad having betrayed her.

It’s really important to be in control when dealing with a woman. Not every woman is mountable.

I am sure no lady will want to have sex with me just for the sake of fun. They will always want it to go beyond that, which is dangerous if I have a woman I am supposed to respect. It really make it hard for me to womanize. Every action have consequences, it is better to choose what you can handle.

IMO though, you shouldn’t be in trouble bcs you cheated. You are the man. Just call her and talk some senses into her head. Moreover, a woman have no right to discuss my matter with anyone else except with me. The lady you married should be the one worried for not being a proper woman. Not you.

I will only feel guilty if I bring a stranger to dishonor my woman in her home. But me cheating peacefully outside and you make a scene? That’s a no no.

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Double0h7(f): 1:49pm On May 04

Just to be clear, you didn’t cheat, you committed adultery. You broke your vows to God, your family and your wife. I really hope she gets a divorce from you.

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by sisisioge: 1:50pm On May 04

All these content writers give themselves away so easily...their imagination is so limited! That's how he wrote about wife forking his boss grin

on another tread. You need more originality and stop attaching those sili picures to your wrtup grin

Na him be say those peeps that used to run here to write everything that happens in their lives are useful niyen grin

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Enemyofpeace: 1:50pm On May 04

Omoawoke:

Hahaha
Make we stone am to death

yes now

Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Segzy19: 1:50pm On May 04

Too soon after your marriage, Bro!
Less than a year? She won't trust you well again but then you have to own up to your mistake, and promise to be of good behaviour...

She won't really be able to trust you properly again but then it is what it is.... Just gather things together and compensate her as much as possible.

However, don't keep apologising forever otherwise she can use that to tie a nose around your neck, guilt-trip and control you for life.

You laos have to behave well and be a good boy.
Keep your shit neat and tidy. Clean up properly if you must go back to your secret life.

Don't quit your job because of it

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by sambright2012: 1:50pm On May 04

Your a failure in life, ordinary successful cheating you can not execute it, now tell me what you can successfully do in this life. Idiot man

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Orlu13: 1:51pm On May 04

see how a man is crying, talking like a fool

I just hope all these are made up stories

if ur wife leaves, u marry another one...wat kind of men do we have these days

as long as u are performing ur duties very well, why are u scared..if she wants to leave, she can leave

seun stop pushing all these nonesense to front page

Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Enemyofpeace: 1:51pm On May 04

Double0h7:
Just to be clear, you didn’t cheat, you committed adultery. You broke your vows to God, your family and your wife. I really hope she gets a divorce from you.

so dat you can pack in. Abi?

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Double0h7(f): 1:52pm On May 04

Enemyofpeace:
so dat you can pack in. Abi?

Eww 😷

Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Enemyofpeace: 1:53pm On May 04

Double0h7:

Eww 😷

I lie?

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by advanceDNA: 1:53pm On May 04

sambright2012:
Your a failure in life, ordinary successful cheating you can not execute it, now tell me what you can successfully do in this life. Idiot man

Hahahahahahaha......

U be werey!!

Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by winner37(m): 1:54pm On May 04

All the years of my womanizering I fear women on one thing which is " When they love ,they love with all their heart,soul and spirit and when they hate ,the hatred might be till eternity.." When Devil sees how happy you are in your marriage what the devil will do to change your joy to sorrow by taking one useless lady to your door step and possess her for you to be a victim of your circumstances ,I know is not your fault..
Your case is bulky but all i could advised is you need that time with your wife , talk to her she will forgive but she can't forget...

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by FireUpNow(m): 1:56pm On May 04

Yiu get mind . Why not call your wife and talk with her?

Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 1:57pm On May 04

Check your family first, do you have polygamous lifestyle there

?.....which Spirit is tracking you down

There are many married men that have cheated and still escaped but your own, the very girl did an audio record....why

Deal with your foundation first, but before that, first go into fasting, repentance prayers for a week ...

Then deal with your foundation....

Pls leave your Wife alone for now, and seek the face of God first , you need to find your root first before making another step...

After that, then gather your church Elders, let them accompany you or visit her parents and talk with them , start a healing process from there...

If she is truly your wife indeed, why won't she come back to you

God first pls!!!!!

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by NothingDoMe: 2:00pm On May 04

advanceDNA:
Is it just me....cos once I see stories with random internet pics at attached...I just feel it's a bunch of made up stories

Mods often attach pictures. I've had two FP posts and the mods put the pictures there. 😄

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by AleAirHub(m): 2:07pm On May 04

Another fake tales angry

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Berankis: 2:08pm On May 04

Broken1985:
Nairalanders,

Please don't crucify me yet, just advise me please. Had to utilize a new moniker for this.

I got married last year June and by February 2024, I was transferred to another state for work. I was bored in the city and probably made a mistake. The girl stays in same hotel, and works for a bank, also on a course. So we started talking and one thing led to another. This girl had her phone on audio record the two times we got down and recorded all the audio of the shit we did.

My wife came visiting and of course I defined boundaries the moment wifey was around. A few days back I got high and dozed off, my wife got into my phone saw our chats. Her last chat to me, was regarding the audio. My wife followed through the convo and she sent two 24 minute audios.

Before I could wake, Wifey was already gone from the hotel. And when I checked my phone I saw a long epistle and screen shots of what happened. Now she has called my entire family, friends everybody I know. I am so ashamed of myself.

Is there anything I can do to have her back.
Can she ever forgive me.

I feel so bad having betrayed her.

The only advice I have for you is that, in all... Know yourself and deal with the situation as much as you can. You will not die. We all have marital problems. I have mine now, with no one to run one. I just have to deal with it. All problems aren't infidelity but most issues will affect trust.

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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by seanery: 2:09pm On May 04

Fool

U b ashawo man

She deserve to leave u

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