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Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Sweetvie: 1:25pm On May 04 |
Hmmm |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Solofresh2: 1:25pm On May 04 |
If you know you are not done with formication, you have no business with marriage 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by lacasera14(m): 1:26pm On May 04 |
It'll take the grace of God to restore your marriage. But your wife was too fast to involved the entire family. She may regret it later. This something she should have dealt with you privately. Even if she forgives you, her family may not. Marry wise women. 10 Likes |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Rich4god(m): 1:27pm On May 04 |
Am more concerned why the lady will record everything... And why then did she send it to your wife. This your story get as e be. A lady that havent met your wife before just decided to send bad evidence to her just like that. Except if you have promised the other lady marriage, I see no reason why she will leak u guys secret. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by slimmax: 1:27pm On May 04 |
Lol 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by GlobeTrotter2: 1:28pm On May 04 |
Broken1985:if sounds like you are sorry you got caught |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by anayolity: 1:28pm On May 04 |
Your wife is coming all you had to do was clear your tracks 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by dawnomike(m): 1:29pm On May 04 |
Broken1985:Just keep begging and apologising still she forgives you |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by mrdharkchild(m): 1:29pm On May 04 |
They said that it's only women that cheat in marriages. When a man cheats everyone keeps quiet. You're only sorry because u were caught. If you were not caught, you'd have continued. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by frankson1(m): 1:31pm On May 04 |
You're not truly remorseful. You would have definitely continued in your sexcapade if you weren't caught so your apologies make no meaning. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Bioharry: 1:31pm On May 04 |
Its nt about forgiveness, bt will she ever trust u again? 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by adecz: 1:31pm On May 04 |
Be a man & ignore her.. She will come back and then you can calm her down.. After all, last last, man can't be eating only one soup forever❗️❗️😎😎😎 But I also detect some mumuness in you, a married man, for recording such amorous dalliances. For what purpose may I ask.. As for your wife, dem don talk say make dem leave our phones alone, because wetin dem they find, dem go see am for the phone and na dem go dey cry... 3 Likes |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by schoolboymatt(m): 1:32pm On May 04 |
men are polygamous, she will get over it. |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by advanceDNA: 1:32pm On May 04 |
Is it just me....cos once I see stories with random internet pics at attached...I just feel it's a bunch of made up stories 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Okortor: 1:32pm On May 04 |
It's crazy |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Kkola: 1:33pm On May 04 |
Dexy4yah: You be mumu, leave your job beacause of your wife 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by advanceDNA: 1:34pm On May 04 |
schoolboymatt: Or she will prove women can also fvck multiple dîcks by cheating....and add paternity fraud as jàrà.... This is 2024 ooooo....everybody is polygamous now 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Whalis: 1:35pm On May 04 |
Dogalmighty17:Don't mind the silly fellow. What was the wife looking for -a reason to remain in the marriage or a reason to leave? This one women full everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by fykes(m): 1:35pm On May 04 |
Take this advice and take it well...Don't act...don't beg...act like you didn't see the messages she left you. Never bring it up first... Take it from me...you done messed up, take it up the chin and act like it's no biggie...she will come around much sooner than if you give in to her drama and go begging. If anybody calls you, tell em you respect them but what's done is done...you will rather they give yall space to deal with it as a couple. Your wife will get the message...she will wonder why you not acting remorseful? She will wnder if she was so bad and turn thr blame on herself. It's cold...I know...but that's gonna get the job done sooner than if you go explaining, begging or doing all the things conventional wisdom advises. When all is said and done...let ur subsequent strayings be just about sex...chemistry and lust. No good reason you should be chatting and texting a side piece you just met when you are newly married. Boundaries ain't just physical...should be psychological too 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by schoolboymatt(m): 1:36pm On May 04 |
advanceDNA: any woman that cheats on her husband should not be given a second chance... send her packing. 😂 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by 12345baba(m): 1:37pm On May 04 |
Apologize and be thoroughly sorry,if she gree nwanne move on. |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Omoawoke: 1:37pm On May 04 |
Broken1985: Shut the fuvk up and grow up man. You are an African man and stop this stupid western cheating shittt… You are a man and free to sample any kepkus you want. Don’t just get caught and do it with caution, use protection and don’t neglect your family. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Brownemeka: 1:38pm On May 04 |
Dogalmighty17:Do you realize this is about someone Marriage And are you married If You are,,,, Legally If Yes, can You define Marriage Answer to this questions should help you comment responsibly on issues of marriage next time. 4 Likes |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Omoawoke: 1:39pm On May 04 |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Eunoiaa(f): 1:39pm On May 04 |
PerfectStranger: So being the breadwinner of a home gives a person a pass at cheating? Then a dual-income home would be a playing field for an open relationship abi? I did not remember when this update dropped, but it's cool. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by MaziObinnaokija: 1:39pm On May 04 |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by nairalanda1(m): 1:39pm On May 04 |
adecz: SO also women too. But I also detect some mumuness in Memories of how he betrayed his wife. As for your wife, dem don talk say make Or he can simply respect his marriage vows, or maybe, going back in time, be honest, and tell his then intended he wanted to be a polygamist, so if she no greee, they would have gone their separate ways , and premium tears would have been avoided. 4 Likes |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by Omoawoke: 1:40pm On May 04 |
advanceDNA: Mods add those pictures when they are moving to front page |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by jaxxy(m): 1:40pm On May 04 |
Cheating in marriage is completely unacceptable. U must know and accept this from the day u propose. Sow all ur wild oats b4 then if u must and close that chapter for good if u are ready and serious about marriage. u fumbled and must make amends, start by calling ur family, inlaws etc and apologise for ur misbehaviour let them speak to ur wife on ur behalf then try to speak with her. Boredom is not a reason to cheat. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by buzquet(m): 1:40pm On May 04 |
Bro, you should not be ashamed. Just man up, apologise briefly to your wife. Don't be too emotional about it. She will constantly drag you into her emotional frame because of the issue.. resist the urge to explain. Whoever she has reported you to, if they call you, just apologise briefly and move on. Don't explain too much for anybody. Remain firm as a man you be. She will come around. Please don't make mistake of trying to please her too much. Just make sure you pay all the bills as you dey pay am. Don't panic because if you panic, you will press self destruction button. Women don't care about morality, they only care about if you are Strong Or Weak. If you are Strong, she will forgive you and move on. But If you are weak, she will severally punish you for it till death do una part. Stand strong, sir 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by nurudeen181(m): 1:40pm On May 04 |
do you have to.. she called everyone then so be it. if she could call everyone first before talking to you about it, you will need everyone she talks to in other to get her settled back.. i would just let it be and man up as i have while cheating.. it wasn't a mistake so why worry when already you know you cant properly cover up. i didn't read the story but i read the first and fourth comments |
Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by royalfly(m): 1:41pm On May 04 |
Broken1985: U are a cheat, man or woman, cheating is wrong, pray and beg. What ever she decides is okay by us lol. Don't expect a woman to forgive u when u cheat, for men please don't ever forgive. Only God can say now. Y do people even cheat self, man or woman? If u committed stay committed. Cheating in a relationship I can understand but in marraige? In relationship I understand it may be a mistake but not in marraige. Imagine if that woman is a good woman, u just ruined something. 1 Like |
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