As a guy, who will you love the most when you marry? Your Mum or your Wife?

You are not supposed to love anybody less. Love is immeasurable. The way you love yourself is the same way you should love everyone, even a stranger. So, the phrasing of your question is morally and philosophically wrong.

People mistake responsibility for love. That is why they claim that there are types of love. Love has no types. Love is one. Love does not manifest in varied degrees. You can't love someone more and love another person less because love is immeasurable. It is either you love someone or you don't love the person.

Your question should be, between your parents and your spouse, whom do you owe more responsibility? I use parents because the consideration is not supposed to be between your spouse and your mother. Your father is also a human and deserves the same treatment that your mother deserves from you.

This is psychiatric question oo..

No be sensible man go answer it sef..
It's on everyone's forehead...

Lol... There are types of love... The kind of love you love your friend, is different from the love you love your siblings, different from the love you love your spouse....
Love is also immeasurable..
Either you love wholeheartedly or you simply like the person....

So love everybody and give each person the type of love they deserve!!!

It depends on who helped you whenyou needed help is the most important out of all

The only being capable of the kind of love that some folks above are implying is God ...

No other being is capable of loving an individual in a way that is "immeasurable" ...

Having said so, everyone in my life who will "see" the fruits of love on my end MUST earn it ...

My mum have earned her's by the sacrifices she's made for me, so it's left for my wife to do same ...

If she can't, then it's clear to the blind who takes priority "love wise" ...

I know where this is going. But your mum may not be around to protect you when you are 60+. Therefore, thoroughly love your wife (yourself) without leaving your mum unloved.
Quote me when you clock 60.😊

How dare you compare any other woman to my mom in the first place? .

immortalcrown:
You are not supposed to love anybody less. Love is immeasurable. The way you love yourself is the same way you should love everyone, even a stranger. So, the phrasing of your question is morally and philosophically wrong.

People mistake responsibility for love. Your question should be, between your parents and your spouse, whom do you owe more responsibility? I use parents because the consideration is not supposed to be between your spouse and your mother. Your father is also a human and deserves the same treatment that your mother deserves from you.

Can I blow you hot kisses for this comment? I know you are a man.

Your mother's love for you is unconditional, your wife's love is based on certain unspoken conditions no matter the guise or pretense.

If you know, you know !

Now, use your tongue to count your teeth.

Na my mama ooo

Lol.... ..

Woman wey we jam for road....woman wey her love na unto say I dey provide, woman wey be say if u kpai anytime, she don hop on another penis sharpally..


Lol....guys no let penis dey run ur mind oooo

ebubeson:
As a guy, who will you love the most when you marry? Your Mum or your Wife?

You know your life is shit if you are forced to choose between the 2

The fact that there is even a comparison is appauling . Who wife epp lol. Hit a bump on the road and come back with this useless comparison lol

LordIsaac:
I know where this is going. But your mum may not be around to protect you when you are 60+. Therefore, thoroughly love your wife (yourself) without leaving your mum unloved.
Quote me when you clock 60.😊

Lol like you go reach 50 sef . Even tomorrow no sure

NEUDUDE:


Lol like you go reach 50 sef . Even tomorrow no sure

Tomorrow is sure by God’s mercy and grace. We live daily by faith, you know. Scripture says all that is not of faith is sin.😊

Only a timid foolish son asks this question though...
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Most of you that have mothers don't value or know what you have , some of us never grew to know our mother, some of us never experienced the love of a mother as a teen, or as an adult ...here u are thinking your wife's love can replace a mother's love.
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At best a wife's love may stay for 5 years , believe me, it starts depreciating or reducing from her lens, many times she stays with u with disgust...whereas a mother's love is forever....how do u even joke with that kind of love...a woman can wake up amd dump ur ur sorry ass....despite the kids or the whole world u might have bought her...your mother is always ur mother....
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A man that can not make it plain to her woman that his moms place is untouchable still has lot to learn about honour and self respect..
...I will do anything to have my mom, to experience what a mother's love is.....a girls love? theres nothing special abt it in our presnt world...its fake, or most tome fickle, a wise man will be careful of a womans love, not replace his mom's love for a woman most likely unable to love because more than 10 diicks in the least have brutally punctured the part of her soul responsible for love

Who is Always bringing all this stupid comparisons up self

LordIsaac:
I know where this is going. But your mum may not be around to protect you when you are 60+. Therefore, thoroughly love your wife (yourself) without leaving your mum unloved.
Quote me when you clock 60.😊

The wife fit don turn against you even before 60.. Nothing is sure with that gender... You mum will hardly have a reason not to love you till her dying day. So mum over wife that can always come up with excuses to leave you.. I heard of a story of a man who was a transporter.. He was paying the wife monthly and told her not to work or stressing herself. Everything was fine and well ,until he was involved in an accident.. That same wife was beating him,because he was unable to walk .. She later packed out of his house,and he went back to his family he cared less about.. So man gat choose wisely!

BigYash:
The wife fit don turn against you even before 60.. Nothing is sure with that gender... You mum will hardly have a reason not to love you till her dying day. So mum over wife that can always come up with excuses to leave you.. I heard of a story of a man who was a transporter.. He was paying the wife monthly and told her not to work or stressing herself. Everything was fine and well ,until he was involved in an accident.. That same wife was beating him,because he was unable to walk .. She later packed out of his house,and he went back to his family he cared less about.. So man gat choose wisely!

That was not a wife. I am talking about wife😊

LordIsaac:

That was not a wife. I am talking about wife😊

To the transporter that woman was a a wife,same way you might think the one you gave all your love is a wife.... Until you are in a deep shit,you will never know If she is a wife or just a pretender..

BigYash:
To the transporter that woman was a a wife,same way you might think the one you gave all your love is a wife.... Until you are in a deep shit,you will never know If she is a wife or just a pretender..

We are talking about wife. Not on paper…I mean wife.😊

Love both but using your number 6 will make the whole difference.

LordIsaac:

We are talking about wife. Not on paper…I mean wife.😊

And I am telling you that you can only determine the genuineness of her being a “wife” only when you’re in a deep shit,and she is able to stand by you or stand with you... If you are yet to pass through that stage,you might just be deceiving yourself calling her a wife. And this is the case of most married men today.. Some even end up training other persons children thinking the kids are his... all from the woman he calls “my lovely wife”

Protect your wife from your mother
Protect your mother from your wife

BigYash:
And I am telling you that you can only determine the genuineness of her being a “wife” only when you’re in a deep shit,and she is able to stand by you or stand with you... If you are yet to pass through that stage,you might just be deceiving yourself calling her a wife. And this is the case of most married men today.. Some even end up training other persons children thinking the kids are his... all from the woman he calls “my lovely wife”

Even you will agree with me that in this world, there are women we can call wife in the true sense of the word- that’s the group I’m referring to.

LordIsaac:

Even you will agree with me that in this world, there are women we can call wife in the true sense of the word- that’s the group I’m referring to.

Ofcourse there are,but you can’t determine that by just marrying her and calling her “wife”

There has got to be an examination and ofcourse result.. If she passes the exam,then she is a wife,and if she fails the exam,then she was never a wife.. If you still don’t get it ,then forget about it.. Shalom!

BigYash:
Ofcourse there are,but you can’t determine that by just marrying her and calling her “wife”

There has got to be an examination and ofcourse result.. If she passes the exam,then she is a wife,and if she fails the exam,then she was never a wife.. If you still don’t get it ,then forget about it.. Shalom!

That’s exactly my point. You’ll agree with me that about 80% of men marry only because they can afford it, and by that, they end up marrying (buying) their destruction packaged as wife!😊

Puss360:
Lol... There are types of love... The kind of love you love your friend, is different from the love you love your siblings, different from the love you love your spouse....
Love is also immeasurable..
Either you love wholeheartedly or you simply like the person....

So love everybody and give each person the type of love they deserve!!!

This is the best answer and similar to my view. The love you have for your wife is different from that from that you have for your mum. They can go together without interfering with each other

Just love the person that you know also loves you unconditionally

ebubeson:
As a guy, who will you love the most when you marry? Your Mum or your Wife?

Abi the wife is mad. Who the hell is she?

I owe you a handshake and one chilled bottle of Heineken beer.
You said it all.

immortalcrown:
You are not supposed to love anybody less. Love is immeasurable. The way you love yourself is the same way you should love everyone, even a stranger. So, the phrasing of your question is morally and philosophically wrong.

People mistake responsibility for love. That is why they claim that there are types of love. Love has no types. Love is one. Love does not manifest in varied degrees. You can't love someone more and love another person less because love is immeasurable. It is either you love someone or you don't love the person.

Your question should be, between your parents and your spouse, whom do you owe more responsibility? I use parents because the consideration is not supposed to be between your spouse and your mother. Your father is also a human and deserves the same treatment that your mother deserves from you.