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Please Guys I Need As Much Words Encouragement As I Can Get by Meektunz: 7:41pm On May 22
After my previous post about how I discovered i'm not the father of my first child through my wife's confession, i've decided to Japa to start a new life and Hussle.

I know it won't be easy but i'm sure it will go a long long way to help me heal and move on.

I'm not financially buoyant but atleast i've taken the first step in faith, i went to the immigration office today and applied for a passport, by the hell of God, i've made the payment and I was asked to come back tomorrow to collect the passport since i paid for express. I'm not travelling out basically because of what happened to me (the paternity fraud issue), i've always been having it in mind to travel out but never took a step, i think this issue that happened to me (the Paternity fraud) just pushed me very well... I know i don't really have funds to travel out but i know God will do it. Once I receive the passport tomorrow, i'll start working on the next step. I know there's nothing impossible for God.... Thanks alot guys for your advises right from my initial post.
Re: Please Guys I Need As Much Words Encouragement As I Can Get by immortalcrown(m): 7:50pm On May 22
Don't hurt yourself because someone hurt you.

Don't travel when you are not prepared for the journey.


What about your other (own) children?

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Re: Please Guys I Need As Much Words Encouragement As I Can Get by Meektunz: 7:53pm On May 22
immortalcrown:
Don't hurt yourself because someone hurt you.

Don't travel when you are not prepared for the journey.


What about your other (own) children?
I've told her that the other child is not mine because i don't know what to believe anymore, though i have plans of conducting paternity test on the second child when i heal or have the resources.

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Re: Please Guys I Need As Much Words Encouragement As I Can Get by YouCantSeeMee: 8:05pm On May 22
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Re: Please Guys I Need As Much Words Encouragement As I Can Get by LordIsaac(m): 9:04pm On May 22
Remember, you came to this world alone, and you will return alone. We own nothing in the true sense of the word. Keep being positive!

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Re: Please Guys I Need As Much Words Encouragement As I Can Get by tyup(m): 9:07pm On May 22
Meektunz:
I've told her that the other child is not mine because i don't know what to believe anymore, though i have plans of conducting paternity test on the second child when i heal or have the resources.

Traveling abroad is not the cure to ur Depression. how do you even travel to a foreign land with just hope at ur disposal?? Bro you'll suffer hell

And if we ask what country, it'll be nowhere but UK
Re: Please Guys I Need As Much Words Encouragement As I Can Get by DkJay: 9:34pm On May 22
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Hmm. This is a funny case. Well, first of all, sorry about your situation. It's a kind of scar that one carries for life. As much as you can, try to heal and even though it's not on your mind right now, be open to future relationships.

A man shouldn't be alone, especially as you get older. Just keep in mind that you don't punish the next woman for the sins of this one. But shine your eyes well well. Don't repeat your mistakes.

You'll be fine.

As for relocating... well. Go because there's a REAL opportunity available to grab, not because you need it as an escape from your heartbreak. There are other, less expensive ways to deal with the broken heart.

Again. You'll be fine, man. You've seen worse things in your life. You'll see this one through too.

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