Everybody is born innocent until life starts to happen to us. Imagine keeping yourself chaste and good until you get scammed.

Anunakeeh:


90% of you nigerian women don't deserve love because you don't marry for love but get married to resources and comfort.

The day one old man told me that see, you can feed your wife for 100 years and there will never be an issue. But, if your wife feed you for just 1 day and it continue for some times, just know that there will be problem.

In Nigeria we guys sees taking care of all the needs of our wife as our priorities. They want to buy aso-ebi, bra, pants everything we always try to provide.

But here in the UK, that is not visible, there is no way u can meet-up with such. House rent alone don take one person salary. So, to curb that u both must contribute for everything.

Most Nigerian's traveling abroad supposed to prepare their spouse for that reality. If not problem go plenty. By the time she's making her own money and started sending to her own people.

I just hope the wife think it through sha, because na master she went for. Her eyes go soon clear. Make the guy just dey happy. In all things, praise God.

Longmam:
if i have my children,then am ok

Honestly, I don't know the big deal. Let him go back to his country, marriage is over.

LilMissFavvy:
How were you treating your wife, lets start from there

Nonsensical reasoning as usual from some of the female folks!

You didn't read that he sponsored her to the UK and even had to make his mother sell her only property?

What other form of treatment do you want??

It's easy to sponsor a wife who's not your blood relative abroad?

Nothing against being a dependent but I will rather remain in Nigeria than be a dependent in my wife's application. I am not used to being a dependent to anyone.

Dependent ke !

BareFacedLies:
The man is a goat.

You know you're going as a dependent yet you convinced your mother to sell her most important asset in order to fund the trip.

Another man will start fuçking that your so called "Love of your youth" as soon as you are deported

Bleep wey done start since last year?

Iagos:
This just happened to my friend now.
Fear women

Why is it you that is the broadcaster?
The bible you quote is only relevant when your so called friend triumph.
Why did he spend his fortune on a woman instead of him being the principal? He who play the piper dictate the tune . Don't trust naija women to that exten expect those that come from good home. Where the wife parents can weigh in on her not to divorce. What did your friend do to have cause the separation? You just state one side of the story ?
We are waiting sir

Klass99:



Lol . I didn't intend to be savage, just honest about what I read. Did you understand the guy's story? I didn't.

No shade, I simply read the bit you bolded and burst out laughing 😆

Procashtips:


Learn the art of never allowing your wife know your full worth.

My wife still believes I have millions hidden somewhere because of how how behave.

With this, they're always confused on wether to misbehave or not.

I agree 100%>

If you know you and your wife do have squabbles every now n then, delete japa from your agenda!

No quote Bible yet

Let's her your wife's side of the story first.

Sides, why on earth would you deceive your mother to sell her only property when you knew she'd only do it for you, not for your wife?

Iagos:
This just happened to my friend now.
Fear women

Its moraly to put the affairs of a woman first , as for her needs yes , not life time goals

When has staying in d UK become an achievement

immortalcrown:
Not the first of its kind.

You quote the Bible after deceiving your mother. A prodigal son.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

"You are dreaming"
Beyonce kee u dia

LexngtonSteele:


These breakfast stories are funny to hear as an outsider.

Devastating if you're the one experiencing it or paternity fraud.

Truth is, men can be wicked but our anger no dey last. We can shout but days or a week, we don move on.

But you see women ? They can bear grudges for years... the day she will pack from your house...

She will cook your favourite meal, fvck you your favourite style and you will return to find the house empty, surgically cleaned.

Happened to lots of men.

Even me, na so Beyonce leave me at face-me-i-face-you for Jay-Z in New York

Anunakeeh:


Na the toto😂

Whenever most men sees toto or lies with toto. Their brain automatically starts malfunctioning or shut down completely.

Most men have their brains located where their dvck is while the women have theirs where their vagina is.

e tire me o......how do u begin to spend money from sales of ur mothers house to educate a woman..money wey e suppose use better himself and put himself in a position where he can take care of the mother that sold house for his sake, before the woman dies, make e for no live with regret of not spoiling his mother. e good as d jezebel e spent the money on dun teach am sense

But bro women dont have their brains in their vagina o.....90% of women are diverting their husbands funds to take care of their folks and siblings and all. They can Bleep u, but they know the sacrifices not to make.

kushme:


Mehn, that line strong oh. Respect

bro i just dont get it, i dont get why my inheritance will be spent to send someone else to school so that I can be dependent on that person

BareFacedLies:
The man is a goat.

You know you're going as a dependent yet you convinced your mother to sell her most important asset in order to fund the trip.

Another man will start fuçking that your so called "Love of your youth" as soon as you are deported

E suppose comot for UK today. Today is 18th already 😂
The other guy behind the scene waiting to have full access to the house like ☺️

idahme:
Men should know that women are hypergamous aka gold diggers if you put yourself in a position where a woman's status is higher than yours your relationship is practically over. They look up to another person whose social stats is more than theirs, this is the way majority of women think. Don't be the fool to be scammed this way, always develop yourself to an extent where the woman always sees you as her hypergamous entity that will come and rescue her out of her misery else she will leave you alone.

Don't you ever sponsor a lady to be the dependent, go your journey and establish yourself before thinking of how to bring family over if you can stand the risk ...

I don't know the number of times we have to keep saying this for men to learn. You are spot on and sadly another guy is somewhere reading this and planning on making his wife a focal point of his life instead of investing in his life.

All these your incomplete stories , love of my youth kor, Lord of the rings ni.

eweqwatr:
Mtshew, dependent husband for 10 whole years he kept depending?

olodo

Came into the UK Feb 2013

idahme:
Men should know that women are hypergamous aka gold diggers if you put yourself in a position where a woman's status is higher than yours your relationship is practically over. They look up to another person whose social stats is more than theirs, this is the way majority of women think. Don't be the fool to be scammed this way, always develop yourself to an extent where the woman always sees you as her hypergamous entity that will come and rescue her out of her misery else she will leave you alone.

Don't you ever sponsor a lady to be the dependent, go your journey and establish yourself before thinking of how to bring family over if you can stand the risk ...

I am married and I agree with this 100%. forget love oh, you have to always be in charge! not by imposing it but by earning it!

The guy in question should have applied for visa extension but from the look of things now it's too late for this.
If he had done that earlier he would have survived the likelihood if deportation.
But we did not know what really led to this

The story isn't full.

LilMissFavvy:
How were you treating your wife, lets start from there

How was he treating someone he had to convince his mom to sell her only property to send abroad

Mtchhhheeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwweweweeeewwwwwwwwww


I just pity some useless guys that refuse to learn how to put themselves first before any lady. They'll all continue to suffer in women's hands.

If my family is dropping the high funds… then I must be the main applicant so i can protect wot belongs to us…

Your friend is a fool. What reasonable woman leaves her children to travel abroad? When they say date and marry women with brains you say No! It's yash, breast & fine face

idahme:
Men should know that women are hypergamous aka gold diggers if you put yourself in a position where a woman's status is higher than yours your relationship is practically over. They look up to another person whose social stats is more than theirs, this is the way majority of women think. Don't be the fool to be scammed this way, always develop yourself to an extent where the woman always sees you as her hypergamous entity that will come and rescue her out of her misery else she will leave you alone.

Don't you ever sponsor a lady to be the dependent, go your journey and establish yourself before thinking of how to bring family over if you can stand the risk ...

No be lie

obaidan:

bro i just dont get it, i dont get why my inheritance will be spent to send someone else to school so that I can be dependent on that person

The result of; I love my wife and I can do anything for her placed him in this condition. Reason I quoted your words on "diluting common sense with wokeness". That's the issue.

Even sending your biological kids to school in order to depend on them some day is risky,too. I believe, we should send our kids to school so that they can depend on and be useful
to themselves as individuals in the future.

ChybuzzDD:


Nonsensical reasoning as usual from some of the female folks!

You didn't read that he sponsored her to the UK and even had to make his mother sell her only property?

What other form of treatment do you want??

It's easy to sponsor a wife who's not your blood relative abroad?

How is that a sign of good treatment? That is what 70% of folks that travelled using study route did. The wife schools and works just 20hr a week but the husband, who is dependent is open to work as many hours as possible. The same thing that worked for others, why is his own different? Stupid and incomplete story. As if you Nigerian men don't know how wicked and toxic you are. You also don't know when and where to stop. Carry your bad behaviour to UK where to divorce is easier than to cook a pot of soup. And all you birds of his feather are here bashing the woman without hearing her side. Like say Osinachi did not die now, the world would not have known that she was in an abusive marriage with a beast that eventually beat her to death.

It's weird she abandoned the kids. Really weird.

I find that strange.

obaidan:

bro i just dont get it, i dont get why my inheritance will be spent to send someone else to school so that I can be dependent on that person

Na lazy mam. E no ready read book na him cause am.

Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and M.O of insults na? You people say you are logical, is it not logical to communicate with clarity, so you don't leave people scratching their heads or wondering what you are going on about, like the original post?

If you read the topic of the thread and then read the original post itself it makes very little sense. I expected to read a clear account of what happened, why a marriage of 10 years ended, why he has to go back to Naija to join the kids (I thought the kids moved as dependents too) etcetera.

Our official language as a country is English, we are schooled in English Language from primary to tertiary education, our local newspapers are written in English Language, our national news is broadcast in English Language on most TV stations. The least we can do as a people is communicate in basic and simple terms that are clear and easy enough to understand.

I wasn't joking when I said that entire post induced a headache and I am still wondering how he passed IELTS. The British government shouldn't even be subjecting us to IELTS having colonised us and for the reasons I gave above, but people like the OP's friend give them cause to. And that is why mediocrity thrives as against excellence.

people that too know and question everything like you are always useless people. I always observe this thing