Don't Listen To That Man Promising You Heaven and Earth, He May Become Worse Than Your Partner; I Regret Leaving My Marriage- Tiwa Savage

"Simi And Adekunle Gold Makes Me Rêgret Being Single, Their Love Is Still Burning Fresh Like They Started Just Yesterday". – Tiwa Savage writes in pain and rêgrets leaving her marriage.

In her words: "While on set with Simi I had to ask her when she met Adekunle Gold again. Because AG kept calling & checking up on her every now and then, like 10 times in 10 minutes hahaha. Their love is still burning fresh like they started just yesterday. Omo, na that day single life pan me.

Indeed people don't know the value of what they have until they lose it, the poor and the rich cry differently, many of those ladies you see out there celebrating their divorce and separation from their spouses aren't truly happy, no one celebrates divorce and if they are truly happy then, they won't celebrate it.

Many were gull!ble, a lot were mislêad and dêceived into leaving their homes thinking that there is something on the Streets but within a space of time the euphoria will die down and reality will set in, most of them cry silently and the big lady Tiwa is one of them, if not a case of violence sit down with your husband/partner and sort things out. Every relationship have ups and downs, even twins fight and have issues.

Don't listen to that man promising you heaven and earth, he wants to have a taste of your new wine and will lick your foot if that's all it takes to get it but when that happens he may become worse than your current partner.

The pasture looks lush green on the other side from afar, it can't be same when you get there.
Guard what you presently have jealously, it is the best.
Being single no be moi moi

Freedom is a mirage. Many people want to be "free" from their spouses thinking the spouses are the problem, not knowing that their perceived troubles are self inflicted

No source cited at the end of the post. I doubt if Tiwa made the confession. Many are bitter in their marriages while some are happy after divorce. But I observe something about divorced women.

Whether Tiwa made the confession or not, divorce is more painful to women than to men, not just in Nigeria but almost in the whole world. Most of divorced women, especially the ones that initiated their divorce (not the ones rejected by their husbands), are filled with bitterness. They try to use pretence to cover up the bitterness. Even when they get a good man as a second husband, they scapegoat him for the sins of the first husband. They appreciate a good man when he is just a sex mate, not when he tries to a second husband.

Only a few stay happy after divorce, and many in this category are truly decent in thoughts and actions.

Tiwa is not the first and will not be the last because there are numerous fools that never learn from other people's mistakes. Those fools learn from suffering.

But to my fellow men, don't maltreat your wives. Don't tempt her to live in bitterness. Many divorce cases were caused by men.

no one celebrates divorce and if they are truly happy then, they won't celebrate it.

Divorce don reset this one brain.

Both marriage and divorce are mirages. There are married people that are still lonely

thesicilian:
Freedom is a mirage. Many people want to be "free" from their spouses thinking the spouses are the problem, not knowing that their perceived troubles are self afflicted

No peace for the wicked

Be patient with decision-making.

The Truth most Pple don't know about Tiwa Savage is that She is NOT a Marriage type.

She is Wild, Carefree and wants to Enjoy Men and Flex life.

She is like someone that did not have Boyfriends in her Teenage years or her 20's, and now Trying to make up for the Lost time.

Conji go wire ur old ewe_du kpekus wella, you never see anything.

Abeg Gettat with ur expired kpekus.

If you have to learn after you are in soup, instead of by observing the world around you, then you are probably not a bright person.

thesicilian:
Freedom is a mirage. Many people want to be "free" from their spouses thinking the spouses are the problem, not knowing that their perceived troubles are self afflicted

Most people will lead a better life if they are capable of introspection, are inward-looking, and realize that the pains that affect them might be a symptom of their dysfunction.

An obese man beating a horse for not moving fast enough might just realize that he is too heavy for the horse to move fast, and the solution is not external (beating the horse), but internal (shedding weight).

He won't appreciate the horse even at its slow pace until the horse collapses. And in a time where divorce is an automatic consequence of marital issues, scenarios like these won't end.

Eh ya... Sorry aunty.

To those of you following Social Media to decide wetin dey happen for your home and to those of you listening to your Frenemies and taking advise from them, Abeg make una read and apply the wisdom.

This Life no be straight line ooo and no go dey rush behave anyhow because of wetin dem dey tell you ooo.

A Bird in hand is Worth more than 10 on the Tree ooo, no leave the 1 wen dey your hand to fly away ooo.

Okoroawusa:
Both marriage and divorce are mirages. There are married people that are still lonely

U will not die young jarè

Social media and negative influencers have made many women the architects of their misery. As one lay their bed, they shall lie.

The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands, the foolish one tears hers down. Proverbs 14.1

VinnyBaba:


The Truth most Pple don't know about Tiwa Savage is that She is NOT a Marriage type.

She is Wild, Carefree and wants to Enjoy Men and Flex life.

She is like someone that did not have Boyfriends in her Teenage years or her 20's, and now Trying to make up for the Lost time.

But she married someone who understood her wildness. That even contributed or encouraged the wildness in her. Most men won't take her what she is. That's why she is regretting now.

Two good heads will always be better than one, but the problem is that we always end up comparing our partners with others, focusing on what we think we deserve without asking ourselves if our partners are getting anything at all from us, let alone what they deserve.

Marriage will always suck because love has grown cold, selfishness is the new deal. When we start asking ourselves questions like, 'Are we good people? Can we take this thing we are dishing out? If I were my partner, would I be able to love and take care of someone like me?' is when things will start to improve.

Women ain't helping their friends sometimes.

When a man dumps a good woman, his friends will tell him to his face that he has fvcked up.

But women? It is always you deserve better. It ain't helping.

And men fvck up too, just differently. They will find the woman that is just best for them, but they will follow ass until something ties them down even though they just wanted to have a taste.

Recently, I was discussing with a woman who I always have issues with her husband. When she was done badmouthing the man, I asked her just a question, 'Why did you marry someone like that?'

She said that he not was like that in the beginning but changed when friends started giving him advice.

Already, I was becoming very tired of her self-righteousness because in all her complaints, she never admitted doing any wrong.

So I was like, 'Well, your kids are all grown, two are even married, so why don't you invite them over so you all can have this conversation as a family? It will change things.'

She said that the kids are even worse; the first son and daughter rarely call her on the phone, talk more of visiting, and the third one moved out because she was always giving her issues.

'That is interesting. How is their relationship with your husband?' I asked her.

She said that they are like five and six because they learned the bad character from him.

A lot of men and women are like that. It is always about them and what makes them feel good. It doesn't matter how it affects the other person.

What affects marriage these days are too many: sex is cheap and easy, poverty is on the increase, there are exes that you just can't forget, people have bad character and expect you to love them for who they are, some marry for the worst reasons, vetting is a myth, the source of moral guidance is running out, kids are marrying kids.

The list is endless.

One thing I keep telling people is this: You see that green grass on the other side? It is not your grass. But if you apply the right manure here and water the grass timely, it will be greener here soon enough.

As long as your partner is a good person, your marriage will work if you people want it to.

Love is not just a feeling; it is also an action, a choice, a promise, and its fulfillment, etc.

Tallesty1:
"Two good heads will always be better than one, but the problem is that we always end up comparing our partners with others, focusing on what we think we deserve without asking ourselves if our partners are getting anything at all from us, let alone what they deserve.

Marriage will always suck because love has grown cold, selfishness is the new deal. When we start asking ourselves questions like, 'Are we good people? Can we take this thing we are dishing out? If I were my partner, would I be able to love and take care of someone like me?' is when things will start to improve.

Women ain't helping their friends sometimes.

When a man dumps a good woman, his friends will tell him to his face that he has fvcked up.

But women? It is always you deserve better. It ain't helping.

And men fvck up too, just differently. They will find the woman that is just best for them, but they will follow ass until something ties them down even though they just wanted to have a taste.

Recently, I was discussing with a woman who I always have issues with her husband. When she was done badmouthing the man, I asked her just a question, 'Why did you marry someone like that?'

She said that he not was like that in the beginning but changed when friends started giving him advice.

Already, I was becoming very tired of her self-righteousness because in all her complaints, she never admitted doing any wrong.

So I was like, 'Well, your kids are all grown, two are even married, so why don't you invite them over so you all can have this conversation as a family? It will change things.'

She said that the kids are even worse; the first son and daughter rarely call her on the phone, talk more of visiting, and the third one moved out because she was always giving her issues.

'That is interesting. How is their relationship with your husband?' I asked her.

She said that they are like five and six because they learned the bad character from him.

A lot of men and women are like that. It is always about them and what makes them feel good. It doesn't matter how it affects the other person.

What affects marriage these days are too many: sex is cheap and easy, poverty is on the increase, there are exes that you just can't forget, people have bad character and expect you to love them for who they are, some marry for the worst reasons, vetting is a myth, the source of moral guidance is running out, kids are marrying kids.

The list is endless.

One thing I keep telling people is this: You see that green grass on the other side? It is not your grass. But if you apply the right manure here and water the grass timely, it will be greener here soon enough.

As long as your partner is a good person, your marriage will work if you people want it to.

Love is not just a feeling; it is also an action, a choice, a promise, and its fulfillment, etc."

A man who gets it.

I don't know what Tiwa was thinking?? You should be grateful to God for leaving a man who also put your health at risk, He cheated and made you feel less of woman or has she forgotten that it was because of are adulterous ex people started the "small chops" saga. It's good when you're in a relationship with the right, honest, loyal, loving and caring partner not the one that will destroy your health sending you into a world of using drugs everyday of your life.

No source. Abobi don use ChatGPT generate write-up. Sickening children. Tueh.

When did she say this? I'm sure this is the work of hungry bloggers

I could bet my hairy balls that tiwa didn't say this but marriage is still the greatest achievement to a female

Hmmm

pansophist:


Most people will lead a better life if they are capable of introspection, are inward-looking, and realize that the pains that affect them might be a symptom of their dysfunction.

An obese man beating a horse for not moving fast enough might just realize that he is too heavy for the horse to move fast, and the solution is not external (beating the horse), but internal (shedding weight).

He won't appreciate the horse even at its slow pace until the horse collapses. And in a time where divorce is an automatic consequence of marital issues, scenarios like these won't end.

Very insightful.

Too late to cry about this babe.

Divorce don reset this one brain.

Tiwa never said this.

1Sharon:
Tiwa never said this.

Then who said it? Are you her spokesperson?

You need to know the Dimension of love to understand what live truly is...
You can understand better by going through this...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wez73Fdu2o4

Post the video where she said it or Idonbilivit

It's hilarious how the males on this thread desperately want this fake story to be reality.

Always trying all manner of tactics to force women to see marriage as do or die.

CHoccolaTE:
It's hilarious how the males on this thread desperately want this fake story to be reality.

Always trying all manner of tactics to force women to see marriage as do or die.

pls can you help me with 1k to feed ?