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Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Elzazzi: 1:55pm On May 04
Faber:
I dont know the name you call the Almighty in your tribe or religion, but may he bless you richly. His wife no rate him at all and he is here thinking twice to send her packing, maybe na the wife dey feed am. For me either I will send the wife packing, or I will hire boys and shoot the man multiple times in his groin and blokos, if he survive am na he know.

Why will you shoot the man ? Nobe the slutt of a wife dey give am punna ?
He should send the whoore away
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by marksonrick: 1:55pm On May 04
Maysdevices:
Now you know how women feel

You don’t even need to take a shot on a man, many are cheaper than Oxygen

Oh, that justified your cheating right?

It's okay.
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by UnfairLife7(m): 1:55pm On May 04
hooklover:
Never love a woman 2 much cos dey are unpredictsble and are good at hiding dere tracks . Jave lost count f married ladies i knack..om my own i just decide to pipe low cos i was tired
It was baf dat i was doing 3 some with arried ladies dey bring dere friends omly martied ....

At some point i just decided to call it quit . And cant trust any lady again ...i as nkt eben using cd ...i was rough with them talking dirty to dem and dey loved it .....

Since then i just sit and look woman and any man trusting woman has not seen life ...
your comments is trash. You and those women are obviously birds of a feather. There are millions of men that wouldn't attempt what you're doing likewise there are tons of women that wouldn't do such. So your point is useless
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by ask4bk(m): 1:57pm On May 04
tochez24:



Exactly why he doesn't need any advice and should be totally ignored⚠️

He's not ready to be a MAN yet!!!
Anger and revenge is a skill every human can do.
Now, forgiveness is rare. Only special people with big heart can do it.
So, it's me and you who aren't men cos anger go catch me too. But you see that man there? He's a real man, ready to forgive his cheating wife and work for the growth of his family.

He's far bigger than me and you.
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Thundafireseun: 1:57pm On May 04
UnfairLife7:
because he didn't do what you expected or want then that automatically makes it untrue and fictional?

If the story were true ….
No man on earth Will want his wife to stop cheating on him and wouldn’t care if the kids are his ….

there is no reason for his wife to stop cheating so she can bare more children that the fathers of the kids may eventually claim someday….
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Elzazzi: 1:57pm On May 04
SmellingAnus:
When I was much younger, I read a book titled.. even the god's cannot stop a woman that is in love... Let me adjust the title.... Even the god's cannot stop a woman that has made up her mind to cheat.. since you already plan to forgive her no matter the gallons of sperm that has been deposited in her kontus then you need little or no advice because you have already advised yourself ... The only thing I will add is for you to be careful on the way you confront her so that you don't end up possibly dead from her revenge in the future since you still plan to live with her... Finally, I wish you the best as you enter into a state of perpetual unhappiness, sleepless nights, high blood pressure and depression due to the promiscuity of your wife.... It's very possible that he is not the first and only person she has cheated on you with ...

Those kind of women fvck different men you are right. He married someone that belongs to the streets, thinking marriage will stop her from continuing her whorring lifestyle. Lol
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by UnfairLife7(m): 1:58pm On May 04
alpharoyalty:


Your wife is taking advantage of you.
Be realistic and do the right thing.
1.Divorce your wife
2.Do a DNA test on all your kids.
Simple as ABC
don't wait until something bad happened to you before you become a realistic person
he said want his family. He doesn't want divorce
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Elzazzi: 2:04pm On May 04
jaszplus12:
Well, it just shows how women will always respect another man for seeing in that man what she expected to see in her husband!
Probably because she saw more sophisticated dressing or wealth in her boss she succumbed to him...
Really sad situation...you have to outdo her boss in everything for you to gain her fully on your side.

This your comment is so funny. What about women that fvck men that aren't up to the standards of their husbands?

Cheating is ingrained in some of them. It's in their DNA. That's why some even fvck their gate man lol
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by UnfairLife7(m): 2:05pm On May 04
Thundafireseun:


If the story were true ….
No man on earth Will want his wife to stop cheating on him and wouldn’t care if the kids are his ….

there is no reason for his wife to stop cheating so she can bare more children that the fathers of the kids may eventually claim someday….
one thing you should know is that 90% of Nigerian Men cannot afford DNA test. The few ones that can afford it not all will still do it. Some men believe that what you don't know will not kill you. I guess op is one of them.
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by luminouz(m): 2:08pm On May 04
Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

You don't need help. A simp is a disgusting fellow to me. Your kids are definitely not yours too
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by UnfairLife7(m): 2:11pm On May 04
princepee:
You love her and the children so much you don't want to lose them.

The children that May not be yours.

You will eventually loose all of them if they are not yours.

You are just a weak Man.

And I sincerely believe you don't need any advice cus you are too afraid to act..




Not that I believe this story though.
No man should be this stuuupid.
he can't loose the children he singlehandedly raise. A lawyer will educate you on this. If i am the biological father of the child under your roof. You've spent fortune to raise the child to adulthood. I can't claim the child. The child belongs to you. I'm just a sperm donor. The true owner of a child is someone that singlehandedly raised a child
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by ezebunafo(m): 2:13pm On May 04
Ynix:


Do all you can to record all their conversations, pretend as if all is well and after that call for a special meeting preferably on her birthday and invite your parents, her parents and the boss of yours then show up all the evidences, and keep Mute after
how is he sure that his wife is not seeing this update?
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Elzazzi: 2:13pm On May 04
shaybebaby:

The bolded is where you went/are going wrong.

Do you think your worth as a person is so little that you deserve to be cheated on? If you continue to put up with it, then that is the message you are sending to your wife..that you are worth whatever you get.

However, if you think you are deserving of more, then you need to speak up for yourself and your self worth.

Yes you love her, but you cannot love someone more than yourself. You have to think of yourself first because you cannot pour from an empty cup.

Confront her with what you know ( calmly, no emotions..hide it if you can). Tell her she has chosen for herself to be an unfaithful partner, that's it's her choice and you will not stop her from exercising it..she is a grown adult.

But also tell her YOU CHOOSE not be with an unfaithful woman and therefore both your choices are incompatible and you must go your separate ways.

If you love the kids as you've said, then all that remains is how you can play your part in their lives as a father.

I know a part of you will want to hurt her in retaliation, worry that she may get to ride into the sunset with the fella she is cheating on, and live happily ever after. Maybe, maybe not.

But if there is one lesson to be learned here, it is you cannot control the actions of another person, you can only control how you respond to it.

Make your peace with that, set her free and live your life.





God bless you for this wonderful piece.

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Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by MightySparrow: 2:14pm On May 04
Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?


Go for DNA test for your children to know how many are truly yours first, then think of the next line of action.
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by johngwain: 2:15pm On May 04
Omo! U get brain oh!
Choi see brain

quote author=Ynix post=129772699]

Do all you can to record all their conversations, pretend as if all is well and after that call for a special meeting preferably on her birthday and invite your parents, her parents and the boss of yours then show up all the evidences, and keep Mute after [/quote]
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by smasher1(m): 2:16pm On May 04
Seunpapa65:
In our culture it's believed that woman wey the play away match and use the same hands to Cook for the man can lead to death of the man

Especially when the man is aware and does nothing about it.
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by winner37(m): 2:16pm On May 04
I have nothing to say since you have concluded you don't want to divorce her and you love your family....

For me I always say it and I will keep saying but am not wishing myself such to happen.. The day have my wife cheating with concrete evidence no matter I lover her , no matter she contributed for my success,no matter how many children she gave birth to ,that same day she will definitely leave my house and nothing anyone will tell me because of she truly loved me she wouldn't have messed up ...
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by GrandFinale2021(m): 2:20pm On May 04
G0odharddick:



What a simpleton you are!

You call a woman who was a single mother before you met her "your wife" ?

A girl has who mounted Numerous dicks and would still Mount more, you dey call am your wife?

You went and wife a single mother?

Oga allow that man to mount her in peace, stop being stewpid, it's the turn of other men to have her kpekpus. A community project belongs to everyone. All you do is to mount and go

as I just see that simp's comment I been wan tag your moniker to come see the most simp of the year grin
I no know say you don already quote am.
The guy is finished and irredeemablegrin
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by UnfairLife7(m): 2:22pm On May 04
jahsharon:


With your last Paragraph, you can go to Hell with the bastard children that belongs to other men which you are calling yours. The father's will soon come for them.
you lot are ignorance. Let's assume the children under his roof doesn't belong to him biologically, provided they live under his roof and he singlehandedly raised them all to adulthood then he owned the children. An ordinary charge and bail lawyer will teach you this.
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by winner37(m): 2:22pm On May 04
I have nothing to say since you have concluded you don't want to divorce her and you love your family....

For me I always say it and I will keep saying but am not wishing myself such to happen.. The day have my wife cheating with concrete evidence no matter how I lover her , no matter she contributed for my success,no matter how many children she gave birth to ,that same day she will definitely leave my house and nothing anyone will tell me because of she truly loved me she wouldn't have messed
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by bluefilm: 2:23pm On May 04
I can never advice SIMPs in this life, or in the next that is to come

Nonsense angry
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by UnfairLife7(m): 2:25pm On May 04
Tbasicme:
As a man once you realize that you can no longer assert your authority as a husband and your wife is out of control. The best thing to do is to allow her go. Talk to her about your discovery and tell her to go peacefully by divorce.

authority as how? Are you in a military parade?
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Father4all: 2:28pm On May 04
Farmer earning 500k monthly in this present economy. It's alright! Everyone is a big man online
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by UnfairLife7(m): 2:28pm On May 04
xavuv:


What a simple man you are! Your testosterone has been largely replaced with progesterone.

Men have been warned several times never to marry single mothers. You have married a LovePeddler. WTF

Sad, really.
you typed rubbish on a sunny day. Are you better those men getting married to single mothers? You have money more than them? You're highly connected more than them?
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by UnfairLife7(m): 2:30pm On May 04
jahsharon:


That guy na vagabond, I think he is a bastard just like the children he is training
why calling him bastard? He already said he doesn't want to divorce his wife. That's his choice and so be it.
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Ekaka14: 2:32pm On May 04
Iykegodslove:


The bond i tie with my children is very strong. Even though it happens that i am not their biological father, they remain my children. So, DNA not needed. Thanks
grin grin
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by shaybebaby(f): 2:33pm On May 04
Elzazzi:


God bless you for this wonderful piece.
Thank you 😊
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by UnfairLife7(m): 2:34pm On May 04
Chukerokeke90:
[b]Go for a separation before you die mysteriously. Any woman who can open her legs wide enough for another man to see and smash can have a hand in the same man's death. Don't be naive. Many lovely husbands are in the grace as I type this response.

what of men? Any man that can abandon his wife and family running after other girls, what will such kind of men bring home to the wife? I guess those men will bring longlife and prosperity to their wives?
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Khafsun: 2:40pm On May 04
Iykegodslove:


Thanks!!
This might traumatise your kids and ruin their life. Don't do it this way.
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by UnfairLife7(m): 2:42pm On May 04
Basseybruce:
Good morning br, I am saddened by ur situation, not a palatable thing though but as it is now, I won't advise you to take this lightly, God forbid, it may lead to what you don't expect, someone befriending ur wife can never look at you with good eyes oo... Wise up o.... Forget all these contribution to success of a thing o, na when you dey alive you go dey reason say person contribute to your success o. Little words they say, is enough for the wise. Take Care br. You gat to take the bull by it's horn.
you didn't say anything at the end. He already said he can't divorce his wife
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by xavuv: 2:49pm On May 04
UnfairLife7:
you typed rubbish on a sunny day. Are you better those men getting married to single mothers? You have money more than them? You're highly connected more than them?

Oh okaaay

Easy to spot that you a woman, probably a single woman, or a bitter single mother 😒.

Tweh!
Re: My Wife Sleeps With My Boss by Majesty7: 2:53pm On May 04
Iykegodslove:


Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?


Since you don't want a divorce talk it out with her.

I would have advised you to do a DNA test in your kids and then move on quietly with your life.

Thank you

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