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My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by odutolu1(m): 12:11pm On May 03
I have these neighbors in the back flat of my compound. Just an apartment

They never contribute to responsibilities in the house. Water pumping, fuel buying, grass clearing, refuse and compound sweeping. If you need money for these or there are responsibilities opening up, they won't even bat an eyelid.

Most times, I and another neighbor have been doing it even though we've had several meetings about this.

He and his wife have refused to agree to a roaster. They say they'll rather contribute and someone do it – it used to be me.

Recently, the lightning poles in Sango went down and we've not had light in two weeks. So no water. With the fuel issues, they still refused to take responsibility.

I've refused to do it too, after they insisted they cannot be in a roaster. The house has a dedicated generator for pumping water. I just put a little fuel in the generator tank, pump the little I need into the reserve tank we have. The wife and child have been without water for days and instead go out to fetch in the street.

Meanwhile, they have a big gen too in their apartment and they turn their gen on almost three times in a week. So it's just that they don't want to do it when it's a shared responsibility.

It's turning out to being wicked at my end. Because I just only pump what I need and collect the water

What can one do ?

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Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by Foodqueen(f): 12:29pm On May 03
Leave them to suffer their stupidity.

There are many of them like that.

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Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by Ahniin: 12:31pm On May 03
Let it stay that way,until they are ready to be sensible.


So keep at it...say NO to USERS.

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Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by poshestmina(f): 1:30pm On May 03
Let them continue going out to fetch water ,infact stop doing any other thing in the compound too.

I hate wicked neighbors!

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Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by Sonnobax15(m): 1:48pm On May 03
lipsrsealed
Just continue to dey do like that abeg......

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Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by Tokskob2008: 2:11pm On May 03
They are the type of stupid neighbours who always claim over wiseNESS
Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by drmikeadams(m): 2:25pm On May 03
odutolu1:
I have these neighbors in the back flat of my compound. Just an apartment

They never contribute to responsibilities in the house. Water pumping, fuel buying, grass clearing, refuse and compound sweeping. If you need money for these or there are responsibilities opening up, they won't even bat an eyelid.

Most times, I and another neighbor have been doing it even though we've had several meetings about this.

He and his wife have refused to agree to a roaster. They say they'll rather contribute and someone do it – it used to be me.

Recently, the lightning poles in Sango went down and we've not had light in two weeks. So no water. With the fuel issues, they still refused to take responsibility.

I've refused to do it too, after they insisted they cannot be in a roaster. The house has a dedicated generator for pumping water. I just put a little fuel in the generator tank, pump the little I need into the reserve tank we have. The wife and child have been without water for days and instead go out to fetch in the street.

Meanwhile, they have a big gen too in their apartment and they turn their gen on almost three times in a week. So it's just that they don't want to do it when it's a shared responsibility.

It's turning out to being wicked at my end. Because I just only pump what I need and collect the water

What can one do ?

Continue pumping ur water without sending them..u no be fool..if them ready them go come around

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Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by kingthreat(m): 6:52pm On May 03
You cannot force someone into responsibility.
Let them live with the consequences of irresponsibility. No water for them.

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Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by hakeemhakeem(m): 9:07pm On May 03
Report him to the landlord for refusing to contribute to clean the house concerning water jump am pass
Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by odutolu1(m): 9:27pm On May 03
hakeemhakeem:
Report him to the landlord for refusing to contribute to clean the house concerning water jump am pass

The landlord no send anybody. She's in London. Just pay the rent.
Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by NoToPile: 5:25am On May 04
Irresponsible neighbors, irresponsible tenants.

As long as they are not benefiting from the water you are pumping go on soun.

So they don't contribute money for compound cleaning. The landlord needs to know about this one, others can't be paying to clean the compound you live in without your input.

Na them, tenants from hell, they will stress neighbour's, stress landlords.

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Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by Oizee(f): 6:54pm On May 04
odutolu1:


The landlord no send anybody. She's in London. Just pay the rent.
no wonder they are behaving that way....this is far from being wicked, they just lack common sense and they think they are wise

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Re: My Neighbor Won't Contribute To House Responsibilities by frozen70(f): 7:46pm On May 04
odutolu1:
I have these neighbors in the back flat of my compound. Just an apartment

They never contribute to responsibilities in the house. Water pumping, fuel buying, grass clearing, refuse and compound sweeping. If you need money for these or there are responsibilities opening up, they won't even bat an eyelid.

Most times, I and another neighbor have been doing it even though we've had several meetings about this.

He and his wife have refused to agree to a roaster. They say they'll rather contribute and someone do it – it used to be me.

Recently, the lightning poles in Sango went down and we've not had light in two weeks. So no water. With the fuel issues, they still refused to take responsibility.

I've refused to do it too, after they insisted they cannot be in a roaster. The house has a dedicated generator for pumping water. I just put a little fuel in the generator tank, pump the little I need into the reserve tank we have. The wife and child have been without water for days and instead go out to fetch in the street.

Meanwhile, they have a big gen too in their apartment and they turn their gen on almost three times in a week. So it's just that they don't want to do it when it's a shared responsibility.

It's turning out to being wicked at my end. Because I just only pump what I need and collect the water

What can one do ?

Some people will deliberately behave like idiots and if you can avoid them, pls do

Get enough drums for your appointment, anyone that needs water should pump to their immediate use with his fuel and so shall it continue

If you can't cope, just find your way out

After all, the issue on ground your are fighting for favours every one and not just you alone

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