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Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Princewell2012(m): 12:03pm On Sep 26, 2018
bluefilm:
I smell lesbian affection somewhere in between...

No may be she is trying to follow her man. Women don't tolerate that.
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Nobody: 12:05pm On Sep 26, 2018
pweeryambre:

I'm a lady Please

Pray about it and go meet her one of these days and verify what the problem is.

She will tell you the issue/s.

Don't be afraid. She's just a lady who is your boss and not god .

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Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by potusjev: 12:07pm On Sep 26, 2018
I think I agree with you.
marttol:
her crush is in the organization, and probably falling for you,that's why she changed towards you...my opinion though.


Abi una be lesbian, so she has started seeing you around men??

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Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by exlink10(m): 12:09pm On Sep 26, 2018
If you are a guy, she is in love with u.


If you are a lady, you are either eyeing her boyfriend her boyfriends noticed you are sweet and mentioned it to her.

Period
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by potusjev: 12:09pm On Sep 26, 2018
Not for as long as stated. Frustrated yes but not for ever.
enemyofprogress:
Most female bosses are frustrated from home and other life problems
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by exlink10(m): 12:11pm On Sep 26, 2018
AntiWailer:
You do ur job with no drama.

And be on top of your game.

Nobody fires an asset.

I read one post where somenone was fired for going for a job interview and I laughed.

People drop resignation letter self and we double their pay to make sure they wait.

U need to add value to your organization and stop being a victim or playing victim.


No matter how good you are, always remember these words -----EVERYBODY IS EXPENDABLE

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Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Sep 26, 2018
This could happen to anyone, especially for the working class. She is a boss, and ought to act as one; is a privilege to have a boss that is so nice and relate to you just like every other colleagues around. Now to your matter, the problem may not really be her but you, reflect for a moment. Is there something you told a colleague about her that you shouldn't have? Have you ever for ones reciprocated her kind gesture? Did you stop respecting her as a boss because of how nice she was? etc... If after examing yourself and you are still certain that the change in her attitude towards you is not your fault then offer to take her out for lunch or try paying her a visit. The purpose of the lunch or visit is to create an atmosphere away from work where you could pour out your mind to her in a polite way and settle your differences. Am not working, still seeking for a job, I learnt what I just wrote here during my Industrial training and it works a lot.

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Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Jerrysonng: 12:20pm On Sep 26, 2018
She likes u for a date before now and u did nothing about it, so now reverse is the case "hate"
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Gmajor(m): 12:25pm On Sep 26, 2018
I'm detecting sexual tension here oh
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by delzbaba(m): 12:29pm On Sep 26, 2018
DonFreshmoney:
Show her your John Thomas.

If it's big, she will respect you from that day
the complainant is a girl, oya advice her.

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Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by AntiWailer: 12:50pm On Sep 26, 2018
exlink10:



No matter how good you are, always remember these words -----EVERYBODY IS EXPENDABLE

Expendable here and needed else where.
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by surulere012: 12:51pm On Sep 26, 2018
No too much talk. Join us and celebrate with us..

Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by graphiti: 1:01pm On Sep 26, 2018
AntiWailer:
You do ur job with no drama.

And be on top of your game.

Nobody fires an asset.


I read one post where somenone was fired for going for a job interview and I laughed.

People drop resignation letter self and we double their pay to make sure they wait.

U need to add value to your organization and stop being a victim or playing victim.
please loud it!!!
#can relate!
cool
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Ferdinandu(m): 1:04pm On Sep 26, 2018
pweeryambre:

I'm a lady Please
You know whether she is a Lesbian? You never can tell. She might have found out that you are heterosexual.
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Jamesayo: 1:08pm On Sep 26, 2018
Angry person is the easiest to handle. Don't be angry nooni, smile the more. Even when you are annoyed, don't show it, smile it off. She'll be a fool soon, karma will hold up to her. Be prepared for more criticisms, they can only make you better when the corrections are taken. There is no fight when it's one person in the ring.

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Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Premiumwriter: 1:24pm On Sep 26, 2018
AntiWailer:
You do ur job with no drama.

And be on top of your game.

Nobody fires an asset.

I read one post where somenone was fired for going for a job interview and I laughed.

People drop resignation letter self and we double their pay to make sure they wait.

U need to add value to your organization and stop being a victim or playing victim.
@bolded

True talk, remember when I wanted to leave my first job and the woman actually asked me to stay that she will increase my pay.

Anyways I had to leave. But I really overworked myself then sha
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by LadyHeaven(f): 1:27pm On Sep 26, 2018
Some NL members and rubbish advice, jumping into silly conclusions, show her you piipii (OP is female), maybe she is a Lez, wtf, a lady on the second page gave good insight about her experiences learn from her, for me I feel someone has bad mouthed you to her or maybe she overheard you say something or saw something on your phone, all speculative but plausible, I hope you work it out cos it's exhausting working in an unfree environment.

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Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by charlsecy(m): 1:28pm On Sep 26, 2018
Taiwo20:
DID YOU RECENTLY INTRODUCE ANY LADY TO HER....
Bishop:
A woman needs a fast thinking intelligent man and you obviously not fitting that role hence the change of attitude.
Did you read the complainant is also female?
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by LUGBE: 1:36pm On Sep 26, 2018
Xisnin:
Let me tell you a secret. The only way to deal with her is to see her as a boss and not a lady even
if she is friendly with you.
From your story, she wasn't like that before and you must have done something to trigger her
alleged resentment.

Take the same steps you would have taken if your boss is a man.
Find out what the problem is at an appropriate time, apologize and promise to change.

Shut up naughty thing, ass. Licking. From your rubbish talk, you are one of them. Somebody came to work as enshrined in job description not looking at rubbish face and ass. Licking
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by dbestuncle: 1:54pm On Sep 26, 2018
pweeryambre:
I was recently posted to a different unit at my work place, under a very cheerful boss lady. She has been very good to me like she chats me up all the time and takes me out to lunch most of the time. But lately, I noticed she's been giving me attitude, she's been doing that to the point it's affecting my work around her.
She has become so stiff/rigid around me like I'm always uncomfortable and tiptoeing around her, she stops taking me to lunch or sharing stuffs with me, she starts to give me work to do with no instruction and when I turn to ask her question I see she doesn't even want to make eye contact, like she doesn't want me to ask her questions or be around her at all. I once sent her a text message that I feel she's giving me attitude and it makes Me to not know how to react around her and that I am sorry if have done anything wrong. But she did not reply.

Today she gave me a job to do which happens to be confidential but gave me no heads up about it and when I'm done I went and submitted the job On the table in her office with her rival present there.
She later came to me to scold me badly that I have changed and that iam misbehaving. she said a lot of things which made me feel bad, but I'm sure she was the one that has changed.

I don't know how to explain to her how I feel without having any quarrel or upsetting her, Because it's almost looking as if she want us to have a quarrel or something.

Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Sep 26, 2018
Lace Her Drink With Roofies $ Smack Her A$s Crazy
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by djojo(m): 2:03pm On Sep 26, 2018
You don't need to text her SMS, go to her and ask what you did wrong for her and if there is anything she want u to do that make her change she shouldnt hesitate to let you know.

She might want you
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by bizhop01: 2:07pm On Sep 26, 2018
Simple by giving her a fucck
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by taretoofine(m): 2:12pm On Sep 26, 2018
marttol:
her crush is in the organization, and probably falling for you,that's why she changed towards you...my opinion though.


Abi una be lesbian, so she has started seeing you around men??
oil overflow grin

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Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Legendkid: 2:18pm On Sep 26, 2018
DBossNG:
Give her what she wants and that's the end of your problem

Illiterate
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by rlauncher(m): 2:34pm On Sep 26, 2018
pweeryambre:
I was recently posted to a different unit at my work place, under a very cheerful boss lady. She has been very good to me like she chats me up all the time and takes me out to lunch most of the time. But lately, I noticed she's been giving me attitude, she's been doing that to the point it's affecting my work around her.
She has become so stiff/rigid around me like I'm always uncomfortable and tiptoeing around her, she stops taking me to lunch or sharing stuffs with me, she starts to give me work to do with no instruction and when I turn to ask her question I see she doesn't even want to make eye contact, like she doesn't want me to ask her questions or be around her at all. I once sent her a text message that I feel she's giving me attitude and it makes Me to not know how to react around her and that I am sorry if have done anything wrong. But she did not reply.

Today she gave me a job to do which happens to be confidential but gave me no heads up about it and when I'm done I went and submitted the job On the table in her office with her rival present there.
She later came to me to scold me badly that I have changed and that iam misbehaving. she said a lot of things which made me feel bad, but I'm sure she was the one that has changed.

I don't know how to explain to her how I feel without having any quarrel or upsetting her, Because it's almost looking as if she want us to have a quarrel or something.


Maybe, she likes you and she had seen you with another girl.
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by DBossNG(m): 2:44pm On Sep 26, 2018
Legendkid:


Illiterate


I see you. It radiates all over you. You wonder what? You know it! Don't ask me.
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Avoidsexxx(m): 3:17pm On Sep 26, 2018
maestroferdi:
...Angry lady boss should be the noun phrase.

see advice.....
what concerns tomatoes paste in making of egusi or ogbonno soup?? haba nigerians!
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by maestroferdi: 3:21pm On Sep 26, 2018
Avoidsexxx:


see advice.....
what concerns tomatoes paste in making of egusi or ogbonno soup?? haba nigerians!
Go back to school...
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Sep 26, 2018
pweeryambre:

I'm a lady Please

She is probably a lesbian. She wants to thaw you up by first pretending to be mad at you so that you'll feel on edge then later she will become warm towards you so that you'll feel gratitude and be in a position to accept her lesbian advance towards you. Just my opinion.


On what you should do, wait for when you think she in a good mood and she's alone and approach her one on one. Ask her why she has changed towards you and apologize if she feels you've done anything wrong.

Then tell her you really admire her as a wonderful boss and you want her to be your mentor because she's the best at what she does.

At the worst she sends you out of her office.

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Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by Avoidsexxx(m): 3:45pm On Sep 26, 2018
maestroferdi:
Go back to school...
....on strikes ntooo!
Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Boss Lady? by boyjo: 3:53pm On Sep 26, 2018
Xisnin:

You didn't deal with her, you fled.

Hahaha why you dey make me laugh like this?

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