ok we all know that we mess around a bit b4 hoping to settle down full time,
so in d meant time how do we see the guys? toys? lab rats for experimenting?
u know d saying - we hv to keep kissing the frogs till we meet our prince.

what's ur take?

Hell no, one thing boyz are not are toys. at least we can control toyz, but as 4 boyz, CHAI god help us if we think we can control em. the gal who thinks she can treat a guy like a toy, she's in 4 d biggest surprise of her life.

@ gem87

u called me a toy? i am so mad at u right now.

not all like em fat for me i love em slim even if they have got no ass i still admire em so much

benbella:

not all like em fat for me i love em slim even if they have got no ass i still admire em so much

Lol you're on the wrong thread hun

she sure is. lol

yello did nt really get dt

@GEM
so in d meant time how do we see the guys? toys? lab rats for experimenting
YOU KNOW YOUR PROBLEM IS YOU LACK KNOWLEDGE, UNDDERSTANDING WORST OF IT ALL IS THAT YOU LACK HOME TRAINING IF NOT YOU WILL NOT CALL BOYS TOYS
THATS IS THE MAJOR PROBLEM WITH THIS CIVILAZATION SHIT THAT IS WHY GIRLS LIKE YOU OPEN THEIR LOUD MOUTH AND RUN IT ANYWAY NOT BEEFING YOU

@GEM
so in d meant time how do we see the guys? toys?  lab rats for experimenting
YOU KNOW YOUR PROBLEM IS YOU LACK KNOWLEDGE, UNDDERSTANDING WORST OF IT ALL IS THAT YOU LACK HOME TRAINING IF NOT YOU WILL NOT CALL BOYS TOYS
THATS IS THE MAJOR PROBLEM WITH THIS CIVILAZATION SHIT THAT IS WHY GIRLS LIKE YOU OPEN THEIR LOUD MOUTH AND RUN IT ANYWAY NOT BEEFING YOU

hey melifew,

cut her a slack and give her a break. u dont need to attack her personally. she said what she wanted to say. you either post for it or against it. dont attack the girl. if u said u aint a toy, prove why u aint. then she will also prove y she called us toys. be cool man. peace.

if some boys in your area are toys, we the boys here in Nigeria are not toy,
and from your own post "BOYS ARE TOYS - DO YOU AGREE?"
from me i disagree,
Prove: because we the boys rule the world

I also respect our girls here, they are the most beautiful queen i had ever seen on planet earth,

The post sounded more like an invitation for open debate about a girl's appreciation of boys, I really dont see anything wrong with the post. I think what we ought to focus more on would be the response from the women folk, that will give us a deep insight into how this so called civilization is impacting on our women and help us reach fast decisions when it comes to marrying here or running home for our future partners

If boys/men are toys, then over half of them need to be returned to the manufacturer due to some serious faults in their design.

Perhaps having a new 'longer life' battery installed would be a bonus

ok, b4 y'all start attackin me i made it clear dat guys shldn't b here as in 4 d ladies only, cuz of the obvious consequences,
this is an open topic 4 debate not a wrestling ground, all i want is people's opinions not 2 be attacked,
thnx 2 diddy and whitelexi 4 standing up for me.

well you can't blame melifew. i guess he gets uptight with issues like this, he is a typical african who always wants to be incharge. he'll probably get married to a 'doormat' u know the yes sir ,no sir kind of woman. enough of that.

As 4 me, I believe no matter how tough a guy feels he is,  a girl that knows her ONIONS well can get him to do almost anything she wants. They sure are big teddy bears.

@ thelma, u re probably right! A gal dat knows stuffs can probly control her guy nd can put him in place.

However, guyz are d hardest things to control, cuz even if u think u've got ur hands wound right dem tight, believe me dat can do another thing wen u aint dere. But as for toys; day nd night u know u control em.

@ Charlisco, u snd like a typical african man dat cannot appreciate the openess in which ladies and women alike think. One thing u ve 2 know, is dat almost everywhere the guyz are d same, so if Gem thinks she can control her guy here, den she probably do in "AFRICA" where u are from. So all this rubbish talk that "u can controll guyz here but not in africa" is basic nonsesnce.

The biggest mistake a woman can make is attempt to control a guy, Some may be submisive and allow themselves to be controlled, Peeps like me, u dont wanna go there cos even with jazz, a woman will never control my actions, they are purely based on my thinking, i control my destiny

i agree 100000000000000000000 perocent

I think the starter of this post had a mental problem, i do not know what will motivate me to start calling girls i do play with a toy, come to think of it.
I value the female folks alot, but i am supprise here seeing some girls supporting the motion that boys are toys,
And according the topic of this trend, it is saying/indicating that all boys are toy.

charlisco:

I think the starter of this post had a mental problem, i do not know what will motivate me to start calling girls i do play with a toy, come to think of it.
I value the female folks alot, but i am supprise here seeing some girls supporting the motion that boys are toys,
And according the topic of this trend, it is saying/indicating that all boys are toy.

u obviously got this all wrong, i din't mean "toys" literally, it ws just a technical term, and really this is nothing personal so don't take it dat way

you people shouldnt kill ma gem for me ooo, leave her alone. she only wants what y'all think.

guys aint toys! 4 Christ how can U say that??

if ever i'll play a guy then it would just basically be because he aint serious himself _{which aint very likely where i am concerned} but if a guy is really in love then the best thing to do isnt to play with his heart! 4 Christ sake stuffs like this can be the most painful thing ever! i could never do that to a guy even if i didnt love him, but if it's a ''playa'' then i just wouldnt waste a single sec, nope! i wouldnt because i want to show him how it feels to be treated like he did to all the other girls before me and no son of a gun would ever think of playing me!

i really dont understand thios thread




diddy na wa you oh



ur gem?




gat to go we will talk later

I think a girl who thinks that guys are toys, and are experimental objects before the girl settles down is A MUMU!
U are the one that can get pregnant, u are the one that will be most emotional and u are the one that'll would be toyed with (90% of the time) while a guy experiments with so many other girls while you are thinking to yourself, "i'm in love, i've found my perfect man",
Also no girl can control me, i could play dumb and make her think she is, because when a girl thinks she's controlling you, u can control her EVEN BETTER,  but then being  a BOY we know what we up 2, rite boys?

I really don't mind girls toying around and experimenting with me. Actually, I encourage it. The problem is that most girls get too emotional and want to keep this toy to themselves alone. Girls, please share your toys among yourselves. It make for a happier world.

@ Ide, u've got wild dreams darl. How many galz ve wanted 2 keep u. Or how many galz keep deir toys. After a certain age they tend 2 throw it away.

Hope dat this toy (U!) wldnt be thrown away.

yeah dere like toys

Muki u won make all dis boyz chop u alive? i sorry 4 u oh

@gem87

Let me put it like this: The Boys you have met so far are toys. And you are they playa,
CONGRATS

Ok, so after your heart is broken, why do you cry?
or no, sorry, its you that is the HeartBreaker,

May God protect all the boys in the house from Heartbreakers like gem87!
Amen?
Amen!!

Toy ko, train set ni.

Boys are toys indeed, try playing around with one and see.

Back to real issues, boys are just huge teddy bears. don't mind all the hue and cry, a crafty girl who knows what it takes can make her man do anything she wants. Girls that play dumb are better at controlling their guys than girls that want to prove that they are better than them at their own game.
As is usual, do everything in moderation. use your guy as a toy in moderation, over use your priviledge and get your fingers burned!

Teddy bears, re u in anywayz kidding me? They are like rough edged toys. Trains, fast cars etc. Hard core outside, soft inside, nd yet sometime they are so uncormfortable!

Abi oooo, i was wondering where the teddy bears came from. Boys are toys but they are toys with feelings. They are hard on the outside and due to what lives they live, they could be soft or hard on the inside.