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10 Flirting Tips by Harmvirus(f): 5:15pm On Aug 02, 2011
There are 10 essential flirting
moves that you must know:
1) Smiling
You must smile. You probably
think you smile now, but you
don’t, really. You should practice
your smile in the mirror. To be big
enough to be noticed, your smile
will probably have to be bigger
than you are used to.this has
been my major secret and girls in
my sch can testify to that.
2) Getting Caught Looking
Most people look away when the
object of their desire looks at
them. If you want to let that
person know you are interested ,
when they catch you looking,
smile, hold eye contact a moment
longer, then look away.
3) Waving
A little wave to someone who
caught you looking, along with a
smile, is a non-intrus ive, very flirty
way to say "hello."
4) Winking
You can wink at someone from
across the room, or wink at
someone during a conversati on.
If he or she says something funny,
or someone else does something
silly, you can give a wink as a way
of sharing a little moment for just
the two of you, as if the two of
you are in on some private joke
no one else is aware of.i always
do this in my school and it works.
5) Asking "What’s the Story
Behind That?"
You can ask "what’s the story
behind that?" about any special or
unusual thing your quarry is
wearing or carrying. Examples:
"That’s a really neat bracelet you
are wearing. What’s the story
behind that?" or "That’s a really
great briefcase. What’s the story
behind that?" Even if there isn’t
much of one, it’s given you some
conversati on.
6) Holding Eye Contact
While you are conversing with
your new friend, you want to be
sure to have eye contact at least
some of the time. At least once it’s
a good idea to hold the eye
contact a little "too long," just a
fraction too long, so there’s a
brief, more intimate moment
between you.
7) Non-Intrus ive Touching
This can be as simple as placing
your hand lightly on his or her
hand for a moment, or touching
his or her back for a moment as
you walk to a table to sit down.
Just do this a couple of times on
the first flirting interactio n -- if
the person pulls away, don’t do it
again.
cool Checking Him/Her Out
Checking out someone’s body
must be done properly, especially
if you are checking out a woman.
The goal is for your new friend to
feel compliment ed that you
noticed his or her body, not
objectifie d like some piece of
meat. You do this by making eye
contact, then quickly, in less than
a second, passing your eyes down
and then up over his or her body,
then back to looking in the eyes. It
should happen quickly, and you
should be unashamed of taking a
glance. Just don’t do it too often.
9) Using the "Good-bye
Compliment "
If you are shy, flirting with the
"good-bye compliment " may be
just the thing you need. On your
way out, you simply go up to the
person you want to flirt with, and
say something like, "Hi, I have to
go now, but before I did, I really
wanted to let you know that you
have a really great sense of style,
and that I noticed it. I wish I had
more time to spend with you, but
I have to go." Then leave. This
allows you to build your
confidence in approachin g
people, without having to take the
risk of rejection -- after all, you
have to leave, you couldn’t stay
even if they wanted you to! (Some
people also ask for phone
numbers at this point.)
10) Stopping While It’s Still Fun
Remember, flirting should be fun,
and you should leave the flirting
interactio n feeling victorious .
Most people leave their flirting
interactio ns feeling like failures
because they don’t stop until it
stops being fun. If you stop
flirting on a high point, while it’s
still fun, your new friend will feel
good when thinking of you, and
want to see you again.
om
across the room, or wink at
someone during a conversati on.
If he or she says something funny,
or someone else does something
silly, you can give a wink as a way
of sharing a little moment for just
the two of you, as if the two of
you are in on some private joke
no one else is aware of.i always
do this in my school and it works.
5) Asking "What’s the Story
Behind That?"
You can ask "what’s the story
behind that?" about any special or
unusual thing your quarry is
wearing or carrying. Examples:
"That’s a really neat bracelet you
are wearing. What’s the story
behind that?" or "That’s a really
great briefcase. What’s the story
behind that?" Even if there isn’t
much of one, it’s given you some
conversati on.
6) Holding Eye Contact
While you are conversing with
your new friend, you want to be
sure to have eye contact at least
some of the time. At least once it’s
a good idea to hold the eye
contact a little "too long," just a
fraction too long, so there’s a
brief, more intimate moment
between you.
7) Non-Intrus ive Touching
This can be as simple as placing
your hand lightly on his or her
hand for a moment, or touching
his or her back for a moment as
you walk to a table to sit down.
Just do this a couple of times on
the first flirting interactio n -- if
the person pulls away, don’t do it
again.
cool Checking Him/Her Out
Checking out someone’s body
must be done properly, especially
if you are checking out a woman.
The goal is for your new friend to
feel compliment ed that you
noticed his or her body, not
objectifie d like some piece of
meat. You do this by making eye
contact, then quickly, in less than
a second, passing your eyes down
and then up over his or her body,
then back to looking in the eyes. It
should happen quickly, and you
should be unashamed of taking a
glance. Just don’t do it too often.
9) Using the "Good-bye
Compliment "
If you are shy, flirting with the
"good-bye compliment " may be
just the thing you need. On your
way out, you simply go up to the
person you want to flirt with, and
say something like, "Hi, I have to
go now, but before I did, I really
wanted to let you know that you
have a really great sense of style,
and that I noticed it. I wish I had
more time to spend with you, but
I have to go." Then leave. This
allows you to build your
confidence in approachin g
people, without having to take the
risk of rejection -- after all, you
have to leave, you couldn’t stay
even if they wanted you to! (Some
people also ask for phone
numbers at this point.)
10) Stopping While It’s Still Fun
Remember, flirting should be fun,
and you should leave the flirting
interactio n feeling victorious .
Most people leave their flirting
interactio ns feeling like failures
because they don’t stop until it
stops being fun. If you stop
flirting on a high point, while it’s
still fun, your new friend will feel
good when thinking of you, and
want to see you again.
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Mynd44: 5:27pm On Aug 02, 2011
You forgot mouth odour
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by 190: 5:35pm On Aug 02, 2011
^or buying of pants cheesy cheesy

works all the time - 3 girls want me to take em shopping for PANT and BRA

Its all part of the flirting undecided
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Nobody: 6:30pm On Aug 02, 2011
wow this is good. Will help me perfect my flirting skills grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Mynd44: 7:07pm On Aug 02, 2011
How about waving your BB in their faces
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Nobody: 8:14pm On Aug 02, 2011
undecided :-x
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by iice(f): 2:27am On Aug 03, 2011
Didn't know a whole page equaled a pamphlet.
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by slimyem: 7:08am On Aug 03, 2011
what d heck do i need flirting for??
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Mynd44: 8:30am On Aug 03, 2011
^^^
One night stands
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by DaDoctor: 11:18am On Aug 03, 2011
FOR ME? I SIMPLY SPIT IN FRONT OF HER. wink
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by swaggerboi2011: 10:55pm On Aug 03, 2011
my own way be say,,, if i 1 flirt with you, i go cut eye for you,  then you get the message sharperly,, it works for me 100% no jokes,  but try it at your own risk,  if them slap you? nor blame me oo
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by UpDates1(m): 2:43am On Aug 04, 2011
swaggerboi2011:

my own way be say,,, if i 1 flirt with you, i go cut eye for you,  then you get the message sharperly,, it works for me 100% no jokes,  but try it at your own risk,  if them slap you? nor blame me oo
i will try it and give you feedback
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by pleep(m): 7:05am On Aug 04, 2011

4) Winking
You can wink at someone from
across the room, or wink at
someone during a conversati on.
If he or she says something funny,
or someone else does something
silly, you can give a wink as a way
of sharing a little moment for just
the two of you, as if the two of
you are in on some private joke
no one else is aware of.i always
do this in my school and it works. 
Lawl, I remember this one exotic girl winked at me in the mall for no reason. She wasn't even super attractive, but I swear my heart skipped a beat.  grin
It says so much, and so little at the same time.
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Mynd44: 8:18am On Aug 04, 2011
^^^
Na lie na fly enter im eye
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by WebSurfer(m): 8:38am On Aug 04, 2011
Hmmmmm
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by pleep(m): 8:27pm On Aug 04, 2011
Mynd_44:

^^^
Na lie na fly enter im eye
Huh? I don't want a fly to 'enter my eye' undecided it's da truth! Haha, She was a sales person selling sone kind of meditteranean soap. Maybe they have some special training, but I can't figure out why she was so sexi.
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by 190: 8:29pm On Aug 04, 2011
shocked shocked
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Nobody: 8:32pm On Aug 04, 2011
I have been trying this things but they haven't worked so far. What im i getting wrong? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by annawhite(f): 9:08pm On Aug 04, 2011
*stutter nervously* grab his groin!
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by DaDoctor: 12:50pm On Aug 05, 2011
toba:

I have been trying this things but they haven't worked so far. What im i getting wrong? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: 10 Flirting Tips by MMM2(m): 1:12pm On Aug 05, 2011
11. Alwayz wear condom when going out from ur house. undecided

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