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10 Flirting Tips by Harmvirus(f): 5:15pm On Aug 02, 2011 |
There are 10 essential flirting moves that you must know: 1) Smiling You must smile. You probably think you smile now, but you don’t, really. You should practice your smile in the mirror. To be big enough to be noticed, your smile will probably have to be bigger than you are used to.this has been my major secret and girls in my sch can testify to that. 2) Getting Caught Looking Most people look away when the object of their desire looks at them. If you want to let that person know you are interested , when they catch you looking, smile, hold eye contact a moment longer, then look away. 3) Waving A little wave to someone who caught you looking, along with a smile, is a non-intrus ive, very flirty way to say "hello." 4) Winking You can wink at someone from across the room, or wink at someone during a conversati on. If he or she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, you can give a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of.i always do this in my school and it works. 5) Asking "What’s the Story Behind That?" You can ask "what’s the story behind that?" about any special or unusual thing your quarry is wearing or carrying. Examples: "That’s a really neat bracelet you are wearing. What’s the story behind that?" or "That’s a really great briefcase. What’s the story behind that?" Even if there isn’t much of one, it’s given you some conversati on. 6) Holding Eye Contact While you are conversing with your new friend, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once it’s a good idea to hold the eye contact a little "too long," just a fraction too long, so there’s a brief, more intimate moment between you. 7) Non-Intrus ive Touching This can be as simple as placing your hand lightly on his or her hand for a moment, or touching his or her back for a moment as you walk to a table to sit down. Just do this a couple of times on the first flirting interactio n -- if the person pulls away, don’t do it again. Checking Him/Her Out Checking out someone’s body must be done properly, especially if you are checking out a woman. The goal is for your new friend to feel compliment ed that you noticed his or her body, not objectifie d like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over his or her body, then back to looking in the eyes. It should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking a glance. Just don’t do it too often. 9) Using the "Good-bye Compliment " If you are shy, flirting with the "good-bye compliment " may be just the thing you need. On your way out, you simply go up to the person you want to flirt with, and say something like, "Hi, I have to go now, but before I did, I really wanted to let you know that you have a really great sense of style, and that I noticed it. I wish I had more time to spend with you, but I have to go." Then leave. This allows you to build your confidence in approachin g people, without having to take the risk of rejection -- after all, you have to leave, you couldn’t stay even if they wanted you to! (Some people also ask for phone numbers at this point.) 10) Stopping While It’s Still Fun Remember, flirting should be fun, and you should leave the flirting interactio n feeling victorious . Most people leave their flirting interactio ns feeling like failures because they don’t stop until it stops being fun. If you stop flirting on a high point, while it’s still fun, your new friend will feel good when thinking of you, and want to see you again. om across the room, or wink at someone during a conversati on. If he or she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, you can give a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of.i always do this in my school and it works. 5) Asking "What’s the Story Behind That?" You can ask "what’s the story behind that?" about any special or unusual thing your quarry is wearing or carrying. Examples: "That’s a really neat bracelet you are wearing. What’s the story behind that?" or "That’s a really great briefcase. What’s the story behind that?" Even if there isn’t much of one, it’s given you some conversati on. 6) Holding Eye Contact While you are conversing with your new friend, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once it’s a good idea to hold the eye contact a little "too long," just a fraction too long, so there’s a brief, more intimate moment between you. 7) Non-Intrus ive Touching This can be as simple as placing your hand lightly on his or her hand for a moment, or touching his or her back for a moment as you walk to a table to sit down. Just do this a couple of times on the first flirting interactio n -- if the person pulls away, don’t do it again. Checking Him/Her Out Checking out someone’s body must be done properly, especially if you are checking out a woman. The goal is for your new friend to feel compliment ed that you noticed his or her body, not objectifie d like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over his or her body, then back to looking in the eyes. It should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking a glance. Just don’t do it too often. 9) Using the "Good-bye Compliment " If you are shy, flirting with the "good-bye compliment " may be just the thing you need. On your way out, you simply go up to the person you want to flirt with, and say something like, "Hi, I have to go now, but before I did, I really wanted to let you know that you have a really great sense of style, and that I noticed it. I wish I had more time to spend with you, but I have to go." Then leave. This allows you to build your confidence in approachin g people, without having to take the risk of rejection -- after all, you have to leave, you couldn’t stay even if they wanted you to! (Some people also ask for phone numbers at this point.) 10) Stopping While It’s Still Fun Remember, flirting should be fun, and you should leave the flirting interactio n feeling victorious . Most people leave their flirting interactio ns feeling like failures because they don’t stop until it stops being fun. If you stop flirting on a high point, while it’s still fun, your new friend will feel good when thinking of you, and want to see you again. |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Mynd44: 5:27pm On Aug 02, 2011 |
You forgot mouth odour |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by 190: 5:35pm On Aug 02, 2011 |
^or buying of pants works all the time - 3 girls want me to take em shopping for PANT and BRA Its all part of the flirting |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Nobody: 6:30pm On Aug 02, 2011 |
wow this is good. Will help me perfect my flirting skills |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Mynd44: 7:07pm On Aug 02, 2011 |
How about waving your BB in their faces |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Nobody: 8:14pm On Aug 02, 2011 |
:-x |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by iice(f): 2:27am On Aug 03, 2011 |
Didn't know a whole page equaled a pamphlet. |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by slimyem: 7:08am On Aug 03, 2011 |
what d heck do i need flirting for?? |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Mynd44: 8:30am On Aug 03, 2011 |
^^^ One night stands |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by DaDoctor: 11:18am On Aug 03, 2011 |
FOR ME? I SIMPLY SPIT IN FRONT OF HER. |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by swaggerboi2011: 10:55pm On Aug 03, 2011 |
my own way be say,,, if i 1 flirt with you, i go cut eye for you, then you get the message sharperly,, it works for me 100% no jokes, but try it at your own risk, if them slap you? nor blame me oo |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by UpDates1(m): 2:43am On Aug 04, 2011 |
swaggerboi2011:i will try it and give you feedback |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by pleep(m): 7:05am On Aug 04, 2011 |
Lawl, I remember this one exotic girl winked at me in the mall for no reason. She wasn't even super attractive, but I swear my heart skipped a beat. It says so much, and so little at the same time. |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Mynd44: 8:18am On Aug 04, 2011 |
^^^ Na lie na fly enter im eye |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by WebSurfer(m): 8:38am On Aug 04, 2011 |
Hmmmmm |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by pleep(m): 8:27pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
Mynd_44:Huh? I don't want a fly to 'enter my eye' it's da truth! Haha, She was a sales person selling sone kind of meditteranean soap. Maybe they have some special training, but I can't figure out why she was so sexi. |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by 190: 8:29pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by Nobody: 8:32pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
I have been trying this things but they haven't worked so far. What im i getting wrong? |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by annawhite(f): 9:08pm On Aug 04, 2011 |
*stutter nervously* grab his groin! |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by DaDoctor: 12:50pm On Aug 05, 2011 |
toba: ITS IS BECAUSE U DEAL ON ABNORMAL LADIES! THE LE S B I A N S LIKE DYT AND CUDLEMIII TAKE HEArt U HeIR |
Re: 10 Flirting Tips by MMM2(m): 1:12pm On Aug 05, 2011 |
11. Alwayz wear condom when going out from ur house. |
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