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Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2: 4:10pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Pls I don't know what is wrong, and, maybe it's normal, since my wife got pregnant which is like 2 months now, sex is of no interest to me anymore. NOTE: I'm not into any extra marital affairs or crushing on any lady or having feelings for anyone else or of anything related to it. I so much love my wife but that zeal for sex has decreased drastically. Pls what can I do? |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Cutehector(m): 4:18pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Testosterone levels are diminishing... |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by BestAt100: 4:23pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Lindajames1010: 4:28pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Nothing, absolutely nothing. |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Kobojunkie: 5:04pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
truthhurts2:Go see your doctor to rule out any medical problems. I, however, suspect the problem may instead be psychological and not physical. 1 Like |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by ettacool(m): 6:25pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Ok, continue until..... |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by DeMagneto: 7:56pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Close ur eyes, take some highness nd imagine ur wife as ur female celebrity crush U go Bleep her lik never befor 1 Like |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by emmanuelbrown26: 8:00pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
That's to tell u the saying that goes like this "naija women only offer sex nothing more" bcs if your wife offers something aside sex, u won't be here saying this 1 Like |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Oluromantic: 8:52pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
It's nothing. Just a result of the absence of variety. If your wife is sensitive to this, she'll spice you up on bed again. If she's not, she'll just lie down and face expecting you to climb the usual way |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by frozen70(f): 10:34pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
truthhurts2: I think there is nothing wrong with you So far you do get errection but no sex urge, just relax it will come up At times it's like that especially once you gets above 30yrs, it gets dropping due to stress and state of mind 1 Like |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by ibechris(m): 7:37am On Apr 09, 2022 |
Kai...u need to follow your wife and attend antenatal. When my wife had her last pregnancy,we were having sex almost everyday...I was even surprised where the strengths came from as it was one of the best pregnancies she ever had. The baby was the healthiest that even nurses were asking us what she ate during the pregnancy. Stopping thinking and start admiring the pregnancy then your urge would be reawaken. Increase your appetite for sex and pour everything inside like never before. Good luck to u. 3 Likes |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2: 3:28pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:Smile... She offers a lot more than sex to the extent that I count myself lucky to have her. 6 Likes |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2: 3:33pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
frozen70:Of course, I do get erection. I pray it change soon... |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2: 3:38pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
ibechris: |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2: 3:40pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
ibechris: She's yet to start her antenatal, and even my work doesn't allow that, I mean, I hardly have time to spare, always fixed up |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
truthhurts2: @ the bolded perhaps explains it all perhaps. Too much stress isn't good atall. Maybe go on a brief holiday with madam and see if everything falls back to normal? https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/loss-of-libido/ |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by yuping(m): 3:51pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
truthhurts2:try to listen to her, just in case, women mind work differently, she might not be complaining but might use it against you afterwards. |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Mindlog: 4:06pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:. With your continuous wobbling around threads, what have you got to offer humanity? Why do you think your unresolved fixations should be a model for others to live their lives? 3 Likes |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by frozen70(f): 4:18pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
truthhurts2: It will if you program your mind towards sex and fantasizss on it |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2: 4:48pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
yuping: Of course, she's complaining, I'm just using the early stage of the preg as an excuse but mind you, the early stage will soon gone and I will be left with nothing |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2: 4:55pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
frozen70: I'm thinking of maybe going on a short vacation with her and a little shopping, even though not in my budget at all, maybe that would revive it(me) |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by yuping(m): 5:28pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
truthhurts2:oga try get help, make madam proud na beg I beg. |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Mariangeles(f): 5:36pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26: Hate has beclouded your sense of reasoning, so much so that you never make sense. 1 Like |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Foodqueen(f): 6:13pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Hmmmm..... Very soon you wouldn't find her attractive anymore. It's men like u that will start body shaming her after delivery. |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by emmanuelbrown26: 6:33pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Hmmmmmm, who let d dogs out? En cum bi like say u never see your period right!? Did I say anything contrary to d reality on ground? |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by socialmediaman: 6:39pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
@truthhurts2 What’s causing that decline in your interest? It’s like saying you don’t want to go to work anymore. There’s a reason for it, like maybe your boss or coworkers are toxic, you’re feeling like a fraud for hyping your skills and not measuring up etc. What’s causing your interest decline? |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Blue86(m): 6:57pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Guy. Enjoy the break. It will come back. Sometimes sex needs a break. |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2: 7:34pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Foodqueen:I don't even know what to say to you, and is not that I don't know what to say I just don't want to be offensive... but I will rather keep quiet |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Kobojunkie: 7:35pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
truthhurts2:Or you could do some serious self examination to figure out where exactly the problem lies. * Fear of pregnancy? * fears surrounding the health of the fetus? * Fear of fatherhood? * Fear you might not be able to carry the weight? .... What is it? You need to identify what it is that is behind it and tackle it now, not later. .. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.fatherly.com/love-money/men-not-sexually-attracted-pregnant-wife/amp/ |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by truthhurts2: 7:38pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
socialmediaman:If I knew Sir I won't be here... I tried to think of the cause but I can't pinpoint anything |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Kobojunkie: 7:39pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
truthhurts2:What she said is not far from the truth. Most men who body shame their wives do so because of their own insecurities. They hide their own deep shame/fear/anxiety and turn to bully others including their wives instead. So the sooner you deal with whatever it is that your mind, and now body are now warning you of, the sooner you tackle that stressor, the better for you and your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Pls, What Can I Do? by Kobojunkie: 7:41pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
truthhurts2:Keep deep-diving into your mind, resolving any thing that you can imagine as a possible reason, until your body starts to work again. Or go see a mental health counselor or psychologist for help with it. |
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