There are some girls your game can't win over. These girls are out of your league, or some of them are quite demanding for your pocket value. You shouldn't stress it, don't try too hard to impress them. It would burn you out and you might probably not get the relationship you want with them at the end of the day.
Some of these girls, they seemed to worth much not because they came from a wealthy family. They seemed expensive because other guys made them to be. Some guys would spend up to 50k in a week for a Jessica he is trying to woo. Now you are a guy that want to woo the same Jessica, how would you do that when your salary in a month is around 50k. Tell me how you are going to compete with the other guy. How can you beat him to it and win the girl over. Believe it or not, most girls would choose money over a guy who is humorous. Relationship of nowadays is now based on I can only date you depending on how you impress me with your money than other guys.
Two days ago, I was walking by the road and a girl was doing same. She was on call and I overheard her saying, "You want to send me just 3k? I'm not begging for money o?" This same girl wouldn't care if that guy did concree work to get that 3k. If another guy that once dropped 10k for her calls her the same time with the 3k guy, you should know whose call she would drop for another. It's a matter of the highest bidder.

Maybe I shouldn't have used the only the statement "out of your league", I should also use "girls that are materialistic, or too demanding for your pocket." Some girls in your hood would only date guys that use the latest iPhones. And you are the cheap android type, my brother go and rest.

I'm not here to talk you out of relationship quest if you don't have a lot of money as a guy. In fact, there are girls who would date you for your humour, confidence, your position in the office, calmness and looks. You just have to step back and think do I have what it takes to win her over?
The best way to avoid wasteful and inconsequential losses is to be true to yourself. Be a realist. Don't start what you can't finish. Save yourself the stress. There are many fishes in the ocean. The size and shape of the fish you can catch depends on your type of hook or net. Unfortunately nowadays, the metric for your hook or net is now based on money.

I laugh in Swahili........make I no talk wetin dey my mind first

You are right on this man..cut your coat according to your size..you spoke in a mature way without sounding insultive..bless up..

Ur right...instead of trying to impress a girl why not use the money to build ur self.Cut ur coat according to ur size.

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Nah Mumu, wey wan die dey try those ones. You no get money, you wan dey impress material girls.

The way girls take dey bill guys now no be here.

Though I hate to admit it, some ladies pass some guys. If I see banny wey pass me I dey know. I know I'm good looking and my toasting ot is tight but there are still some ladies beyond my reach and I don't stress myself going for them. A supposedly big girl walked up to me once and collected my contact, on a norms I don't approach that kinda babe, expensive hair, latest iPhone and all that. Getting close to her I observed that's there's really nothing to them asides the packaging. If you're confident enough you might get most of them but then its not a risk I'm willing to take. I don't like embarrassment.

Supreme145:
Though I hate to admit it, some ladies pass some guys. If I see banny wey pass me I dey know. I know I'm good looking and my toasting ot is tight but there are still some ladies beyond my reach and I don't stress myself going for them. A supposedly big girl walked up to me once and collected my contact, on a norms I don't approach that kinda babe, expensive hair, latest iPhone and all that. Getting close to her I observed that's there's really nothing to them asides the packaging. If you're confident enough you might get most of them but then its not a risk I'm willing to take. I don't like embarrassment.

Stumbled on this, this same thing I told housemate of mine in UNI, he claims there is no lady he cannot walk up to amd ask out, I said walking up to them is not the issue but been realistic with yourself about their material needs whether na packaging or real is what you should consider, he never agreed, he is an Ogun indigene and has never been to Lagos. Few weeks after, he was chanced to visit for a party on the island, he came back and was gusting other housemates while I was inside sleeping but quite aware of the conversation going on, he practically confessed that when he saw some Ladies, for him to even walk up to them was hard, that they were way above his League, and this is a guy who is handsome and good looking quite okay financially. You need to see the way I jumped up and reminded him of what I told him earlier,ut was then he agreed.

Except say you wan catch cruise, no lele but for something, consider yourself first, pocket secondly then do you.

cayorday89:

Stumbled on this, this same thing I told housemate of mine in UNI, he claims there is no lady he cannot walk up to amd ask out, I said walking up to them is not the issue but been realistic with yourself about their material needs whether na packaging or real is what you should consider, he never agreed, he is an Ogun indigene and has never been to Lagos. Few weeks after, he was chanced to visit for a party on the island, he came back and was gusting other housemates while I was inside sleeping but quite aware of the conversation going on, he practically confessed that when he saw some Ladies, for him to even walk up to them was hard, that they were way above his League, and this is a guy who is handsome and good looking quite okay financially. You need to see the way I jumped up and reminded him of what I told him earlier,ut was then he agreed.

Except say you wan catch cruise, no lele but for something, consider yourself first, pocket secondly then do you.

Yeah, you're right. Some guys don't just want to be realistic.

A constant in life is you can't get all what you want.